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44 year old woman | East Rochester, OH, United States | Seeking men 40-50 within 50 miles

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Widow / Widower
Have kids:
Yes, and they live at home (1)
Wants kids:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
5'5" (165cms)
Christian / Other
No Way
Social Drinker
The cutest man in my life is my nephew...looking for a grownup to give my affection to as well!

In her own words

I am a mom, teacher, daughter, friend, exerciser, chocolate-lover, reader, writer, learner, activist. And I'm a widow. Being a widow doesn't mean I will compare you to my husband. It means I have been through dark times and have come out intact. It means I know I am stronger than I thought I was. It means I know what "in sickness and in health" means and I rocked those vows. It means I know how to take care of myself, but I know the richness of a good relationship and I desire that again. (And please, if you're some scammer from a foreign country who thinks "widow" means "stupid", don't bother). I have a full life, but I miss sharing it with someone special. If all my friends were single, it would be a lot easier not to have a partner, but being the only single one in the group makes it hard. I can't do "couple things" and they have a hard time getting away to do girls' nights. So here I am. I am busy, but I can make time for the right person. I am a generous, affectionate and thoughtful partner. I love being a girlfriend. I have dated a few people seriously since my husband died, but it just hasn't worked out in the long run. My favorite hobbies are writing (I write for the OEA Voice of Change blog), reading, and yoga....none of which is very conducive to meeting men! I'm looking for a guy who doesn't mind that I have a daughter, who will be willing to love her as his own if we get serious, who likes to hold hands in public, who has a job he enjoys most days, who will be there for me when I need someone to tell me to stop taking life so seriously. My fantasy would be a man who likes to go to Blossom for country concerts but also likes to go to the Canton symphony orchestra concerts, who will smile at me from across the room when we're both reading books, but is handy enough to know how to fix things around the house. He's a Christian and leans liberal (yes, that is possible!). I'm pretty sure he doesn't exist, but that's what fantasies are for, right? Please pass me by if: you voted for Donald Trump, you think the Supreme Court's decision legalizing gay marriage is the beginning of the end of the world (because I think it's pretty fantastic), if you think Obama or Hillary or anyone else is trying to "take away your guns", if you think anyone other than a woman and her partner should get to make decisions about her reproductive rights, if you think Planned Parenthood should be defunded, if you think Kasich is a good governor. I do get that everyone is entitled to an opinion, and I even welcome dialogue and discourse on these and other issues, but I have learned that in a dating relationship, these political differences will be too great to overcome. I am simply too passionate about these issues to be able to partner up with someone who feels differently than I do on these topics. But please do send me an email if you think we might have some things in common. Good luck in your search!

Her interests

Alumni connections , Book club , Coffee and conversation , Dining out , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Playing cards , Religion/Spiritual , Shopping/Antiques , Travel/Sightseeing , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Aerobics, Football, Other types of exercise, Running, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga

I exercise 5 or more times per week.




I have Fish, Other

Political views


Favorite hot spots

LOVE NYC! Can't wait to go back again. Also love taking Caribbean cruises, going anywhere sunny with a beach. On winter days, love my fireplace and a good book. Can't the mall when I'm in the mood to shop. Love old book stores.


The Ohio State University, Columbus, OH

Favorite things

I have varied music tastes...anything from Kid Rock to Lady Antebellum, blues, jazz, 80s when I'm in the mood to get nostalgic. TV: Grey's, Modern Family, Scandal, NCIS, Castle. Food: Italian (Carabba's!), Mexican, good steak.

For fun

Work out, read, spend time with friends, travel, sit on porch and enjoy a beer or glass of wine, procrastinate pulling weeds in the summer. Love going to the movies. Hiking in the fall, driving my convertible in the summer.

Last read

Love fiction, suspense, autobiographies. I also read Health magazine. Favorite book of last summer was The Martian, and loved the movie, too. I always have a stack of books waiting to be read.

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'5" (165cms) 5'0" (152cms) to 7'0" (213cms)
Body type: Curvy No preference
Eyes: Brown No preference
Hair: Light brown No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way, Occasionally
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation: Education / Teacher / Professor No preference
Still like my job, although it gets harder every year. Love snow days! Summers are awesome, but teachers work over the summer more than most people realize. Love the kids, love the subject, it's the politics and administrative BS that make me crazy.
Income: $50,001 to $75,000 $25,001 to $35,000, $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship: Widow / Widower Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: Yes, and they live at home (1) No, Yes, and they live away from home
Wants kids: No Not sure, Probably not, No
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian No preference
My family is German, Scottish, English, and Swiss. My grandparents traced our roots to a small town in Switzerland which is named after my Grandma's family; I would love to visit some day! My German ancestors were horse thieves, so the story goes.
Faith: Christian / Other Christian / Protestant, Christian / Other
Growing up a pastor's daughter and losing my husband are the two biggest events that have formed, for better or for worse, my faith. Faith should be an important part of my partner's life, too.
Religious Attitude: I'll tell you later No preference
Growing up a pastor's daughter and losing my husband are the two biggest events that have formed, for better or for worse, my faith. Faith should be an important part of my partner's life, too.
Languages: English English
Education: Graduate degree Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
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