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38 year old woman | Monterey, CA, USA | Seeking men 32-48 within 500 miles

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Have kids:
Yes, and they sometimes live at home (1)
Wants kids:
Body type:
About average
5'0" (152cms)
I'll tell you later
No Way
Looking for long term relationship lead to marriage

In her own words

I have a daughter 7 years old but I do not plan to have any more children--please do not misinterpret that I have less sincerity because I don't want to have child with future partner. To the contrary, I have whole heart of love to give if I settle down with somebody. My decision not to have any more child is based on my life situation, my health state and my careers etc. Unlike most of Asian girls, I am very independent, emotionally, financially and physically. Have been in U.S for 9 years now and have been an official American citizen for 5 years I have to say I love this free land and would plan to settle down here in California for the rest of my life. Overall as a petite, talented Asian girl, I do have traditional value of love and family and I value my body and health a great deal. I have gift of music yet the current jobs I am doing is not related --an assistant professor at college level. I am strong on my will and spirit yet I have a very tender and soft heart, with sensitive free soul. One thing about me that is very important--- I care soul to soul communication more than flesh inter tangle. Have been living alone over 4 years, without a man and my life is quiet and peaceful. Now it is the time for me to settle down my heart, with a real gentleman. I know I deserve true love of a quality man. When I sing to the ocean the tide wave with the melody; when I play piano to the moon the brilliant yet modest quiet light glitter on my shoulder; when I dance to the flower the petal burst into bloom, as if competing with the beauty. Performing on the stage in the highlight is good but one day I find that sitting among audience watching other people's performance is equally awesome! Free from any bad habits and motivited with healthy life style, to be a centenarian is my ultimate goal! If you expect quick sex or flower vase without brain that is not me. I am a slow heater--takes time to build trusting friendship then relationship as it will be lasting one. I am unique as of one attribute: even if going through the most difficult time of life I can still smile at life because I know no one can knock me down but myself! If you addict into drug, or alcohol or gambling etc. bad habits, or if you have violent tendency, please do not write to me. if you are selfish( self centered) without consideration for others, or the one would not apply gold rule" treat people the way you want to be treated" you don't have to contact me. I believe love and respect should be mutual. If you are well educated,confident, generous, successful, with kind heart and prefer healthy lifestyle, you may send a message to me. :) Last but not least I would not have sex at all unless you can show me recent medical report to prove you are STD free. Yes, I trust document more than human's words, as I know STD is so common in this society that some significant figures admitted to public that they infected too. I value my own life and respect others lives too. So preferably I would not have sex before marriage. I can not control what other people do but I can take measure to protect myself. Some people might think they are here looking for opportunity, yet instead all they get might be dirty disease. So let's be straightforward in advance, to avoid any damage recklessness might cause. I know some American men might think it would be a little controlling not to have sex before marriage-- there is culture barrier to truly understand my good intention that I want to show highly respect to my future husband with pure body, while during dating phrase there would be possibility of breaking up for personality incompatibility etc. and also, please do not assume I invite you to home intend for sex-- I invite people home for treating them good meal I cook and nice conversation. I take marriage very seriously that in my heart only my legal husband can have love life with me. Thanks for understanding!

Her interests

Cooking , Dining out , Fishing/Hunting , Hobbies and crafts , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Performing arts , Playing sports , Religion/Spiritual

Sports & exercise

Aerobics, Cycling, Dancing, Martial arts, Other types of exercise, Running, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, VolleyBall, Walking / Hiking, Yoga

I exercise 5 or more times per week.




I have Fish

Her name is zaila and my daughter named it.

Political views

Middle of the Road

Favorite hot spots

Any place you will take me to!

Favorite things

Spending time with you, every moment will be precious!

For fun

Let's exercise together!

Last read

Five love languages--- learn to love in the way partner prefer, not in my own way. :)

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'0" (152cms) 5'4" (162cms) to 6'4" (193cms)
Body type: About average Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Black Black, Blue, Hazel
Hair: Black Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Dark blonde
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Never Never, Social Drinker
Occupation: Education / Teacher / Professor No preference
Income: I'll tell you later $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship: Divorced Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: Yes, and they sometimes live at home (1) No, Yes, and they live away from home
Wants kids: No No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity: Asian Asian, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, White / Caucasian, Other
Faith: I'll tell you later No preference
Languages: Chinese, English English
Education: Graduate degree Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
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