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44 year old woman | Portsmouth, NH, United States | Seeking men 35-55 within 45 miles of Rye Beach, NH

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Her details

Have kids:
Yes, and they sometimes live at home (2)
Wants kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
White / Caucasian
Body type:
A few extra pounds
5'7" (170cms)
I'll tell you later
No Way
Social Drinker
Match sucks. Would you like me to make you a soy cappuccino?

In her own words

Write! If it feels right! Hello! I'm enjoying my life, are you enjoying yours? Life moves too quickly not to be totally engaged by it. I am a grateful person; taking a moment to appreciate the one just before it is quite good for my humanness. A man I would choose to see is one who appreciates how textured the moments can be. I don't have tv. Some favorite groups: The Police, Steely Dan, Led Zeppelin, Pink Floyd, Beastie Boys, Wookiefoot, Allman Brothers Band, Cypress Hill. Some favorite genres: Reggae, Jazz, Classical, Rock n' roll. Some favorite guitar players: Mark Knopfler, Duane Allman, Trey Anastasio, Jerry Garcia. Some favorite bass players: Flea, Mike Gordon, Les Claypool, Phil Lesh. Some favorite drummers: Jon Fishman, Nicko McBrain and that dude from Rush (whatever his name is:) Some favorite keyboardists: Melvin Seals, Page McConnell, Greg Allman, Brent Mydland. So, I am deliberately veering away from saying anything about the Stones and Beatles, however, I would very much enjoy having that conversation. It's quite possible that you value honesty and transparency as much as I do. If you're a cute, sweet, SINGLE and thoughtful man who's a bit daring and [proportionately] coordinated, please send me a message. Tell me something about you. I have two boys, work and there are things I do that make me happy. My life can't, by design, be consumed by a relationship, but, it can augment it in a unique and special way. Working gradually on a relationship with a man who is fun(ny) and smart and a good kisser might be pretty amazing. And now for something completely different: Chocolate pairs well with Guinness - it's the most misunderstood of the stouts. You would find me to be an active, adventurous, inquisitive, solo woman who has a pretty realistic view of how much of a catch she really is. Ha. I'm not going to tell you I'm ALL THAT. I'm into bikes! I like to go fast and I like to go slooooow. There are aspects of both types of riding that I find to be good for my soul. A bike trip I've been taking each August around Manhattan has compelled me to think of other vacations where bicycling would be the way to get around. Riding my bike through Manhattan is not a stressful adventure - rather, it is a delightful one and keeps me coming back for more. From midtown, it is downhill to Wall Street - a Starbucks in hand and coasting through the village was one of the most pleasurable stretches of road riding I've probably ever done. In closing: ---Describing myself in an enticing way, is probably a skill I've not yet developed (I need to). I am also not that great at flirting lol ---Describing the kind of man I'm looking for was/is kind of challenging and I probably didn't do that well either. Here's the thing, mainly I need a confident guy who isn't a weirdo and who isn't a dummy and whose well deserved ego is kept in pretty good check.

Her interests

Alumni connections , Camping , Coffee and conversation , Business networking , Cooking , Dining out , Fishing/Hunting , Gardening/Landscaping , Hobbies and crafts , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Playing sports , Shopping/Antiques , Travel/Sightseeing , Video games , Volunteering , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Baseball, Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Dancing, Golf, Hockey, Other types of exercise, Running, Skiing, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking

I exercise 5 or more times per week.

Favorite hot spots

Beaches. Snowy landscapes. Farms. Cities. Rivers. Deserts. Any place that serves a cold IPA. Manhattan, Boston, Portland, Rye Beach. Baseball games. Diners and fine dining. Situations where opposites are juxtaposed.

Favorite things

Sunlight sparkling off the water, catching a falling leaf, a campfire in the yard, ice to skate, snow to ski, wheels to roll, a foot strike, an even stride, Monet, sculpture, Dooney and Bourke, romance, art, fine leather, metallurgy, a blue heron.

For fun

Walking, shopping, dining, swimming, relaxing, paddleboarding, kayaking, beer tasting, biking, curling up, cuddling, talking. I'm a big kid who is brave and happy and spontaneous. I love the beach, hot days, lots of sun, a good tan and big waves.

Last read

Slash; Keith Richards; Anthony Kiedis; Gregg Allman; Gladwell's three; French Revolutions by Tim Moore; Vogue, Rolling Stone, bank stuff

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'7" (170cms) 5'8" (172cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type: A few extra pounds No preference
Eyes: I'll tell you later No preference
Hair: I'll tell you later Salt and pepper
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Never, Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation: I'll tell you later No preference
I work hard and love my job and feel accomplished when I'm through.
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Divorced Never Married, Divorced
Have kids: Yes, and they sometimes live at home (2) Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Wants kids: No, but it's OK if my partner has kids Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian
I've learned there was a gal on the Mayflower with my name, first and last. If I was big into reincarnation, then, yup, in my past life, I made a significant pilgrimage across the pond.
Faith: I'll tell you later Agnostic, Atheist, Jewish, Christian / Other
Languages: English English
Education: Bachelors degree Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
I studied post modern philosophy in college. Exploring image philosophy and technology.
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