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36 year old woman | Eden Prairie, MN, United States | Seeking men 30-43 within 200 miles


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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
5'7" (170cms)
Christian / Protestant
No Way
Social Drinker
Life is good. God is great. People are wonderful. Carpe diem!

In her own words

Update 1/29/16: Hi there. I want a long hair main photo, but it's post-chemo-growing hedgehog length right now, and I want to be honest about that. Missing my long locks though. Yep, breast cancer survivor. It's been just over a year since my diagnosis. After the Triple Crown of Breast Cancer Treatment (chemo, double mastectomy, and radiation), I'm now cancer-free. Huzzah for reconstruction and good health! Later this year, I'm going to Scotland for a 2 week "Carpe Diem!" trip. So thrilled to see the country I've read about in the Outlander series. Outlander was my wonderful distraction last year, so it'll be awesome to see the real places. I love traveling. I'll go anywhere. I've learned the joys of simple living this year. That happens when you get cancer. I'd be happy living in a cottage by natural water or out in the country. I enjoy city offerings, but I don't think I want to live there anymore. Suburbs are as close as I need to be. As long as I'm with a great partner to share my life with, the where doesn't matter. If you need the city to survive, well, we're probably not a great match, for where I am at this point in my life. I know a lot of people in their 20s-40s are moving into the city, but most people in 20s-40s haven't had cancer. So there it is. I would love to do city stuff periodically, though. I love sports, live theater, concerts, museums, etc. I try to embrace everyday. That's why I chose my profile name. Life is a gift. I want to share that with someone. Laughter and a sense of humor are vital to me. I can't imagine life without laughter. It was a huge part of my cancer treatment last year. I sent group update emails that had tons of upbeat and funny stuff; ask the 140+ people who received those emails. Family and friends are important to me. I'm blessed with so many wonderful people in my life. I'm passionate about some things and easy-going about others. I love spending time at the family lake cabin. I love all Minnesota sports. That even includes the Vikings. Usually. Someday, we'll have a kicker who won't have a massive fail with the playoffs on the line. Someday. I'm a liberal/progressive. I believe in freedom, equality, and community. I have two Masters degrees; education is good. I want kids, whether biological, adopted, or even fostered. If you have kids too, cool. I have two rescued cats who make me laugh. I'd love to adopt a mutt someday. I have a membership at Lifetime Fitness. Cardio machines and lifting are good times. I haven't been there for awhile, because of my short hair. I've been using my gazelle and treadmill at home every day, in the meantime. My faith is really important to me. It always has been, but especially after last year. I try to get to church often. I love natural water: rivers, lakes, oceans, springs, ponds, streams, fountains... love 'em all. I love serving others and sharing the blessings with which I have been given. I want to meet an awesome guy with whom to share my life. I want passion. Someone who has a good sense of humor, is kind, embraces life, can handle the unexpected, and believes in God. Feel free to say hi. And even if you don't feel you're a match, I want to wish you blessings in your life.

Her interests

Book club , Camping , Coffee and conversation , Fishing/Hunting , Gardening/Landscaping , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Nightclubs/Dancing , Performing arts , Playing cards , Playing sports , Political interests , Religion/Spiritual , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Aerobics, Baseball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Football, Golf, Other types of exercise, Running, Skiing, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines

I exercise 5 or more times per week.


I don't believe in astrology


I have Cats

I like Birds, Dogs, Exotic Pets, Fish, Horses, Other

I have 2 cats. I hope to have a dog too someday. Basically, if it's an animal, I like it.

Political views


Favorite hot spots

Family lake cabin; Texas; Tex-Mex or non-chain restaurants; natural water (lakes, rivers, oceans...); places you can chill with a beer or glass of wine. Israel; Toledo, Spain; Florence, Italy; Versailles. My passport is updated; I'll travel anywhere.


Concordia College, Moorhead, MN

Favorite things

Traveling anywhere, Kindle, Converse shoes, unique restaurants, the Oxford comma, intricate mosaics, original art, dry wit, spontaneous standing ovations, NFL Draft Day, 80s cartoons, Comedy Central, salt-free margaritas, the golden hour.

For fun

Sports (football, baseball, basketball, hockey, curling...). Exercising. Live theater. Live comedy. Art. Music. Cabin lake activities. Netflix/Amazon Prime. Recreational reading. I'll try almost anything once (I could tell you some stories).

Last read

Currently rereading "The Outlander" series. Scots FTW.

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'7" (170cms) 5'3" (160cms) to 6'6" (198cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes: Blue No preference
Hair: Dark blonde No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Never, Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation: Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist No preference
Program staff member at a cancer-fighting nonprofit. Best job ever.
Income: $35,001 to $50,000 No preference
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: No Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Wants kids: Definitely Definitely, Someday
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
Faith: Christian / Protestant Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Christian / Other
Lutheran, but open to all denominations.
Languages: English English
Education: Graduate degree Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
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