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37 year old woman | Eden Prairie, MN, United States | Seeking men 30-43 within 200 miles

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Her details

Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
5'7" (170cms)
Christian / Protestant
No Way
Social Drinker
It's never too late to change your dreams. (And my hair is growing. Don't dismiss the post-chemo hair!)

In her own words

I was told my headline's quote several years ago, and I've found it to be the truth. I've changed a lot the last few years, and what was once important to me no longer is. For me, it's about the people in my life - not the work I do, how much I climb vocationally, or feeling like I have to live to other people's expectations. I seek happiness, peace, joy, meaningfulness, and sharing life and all it's beautiful messiness with my true match. As a cancer survivor, I'm now focusing on finding and sharing my life with a special guy. Life is a gift, and I want to embrace the big and small moments with my match. Work is good, but life is about what happens from 5 pm to 8 am. If that's what you're looking for too, please reach out. Life is short - carpe diem! Regarding the photos - my hair is growing back, but it's kind of slow. Eventually it will be shoulder-length again. I'm an investment in cuteness. :) Here's a list of things that make me - me. My faith is important, and I’m a liberal. I love the movie Deadpool, and the show Touched By An Angel lifts my heart. I value traditional education, and I believe life experience is priceless. I could eat pizza every day and never get sick of it, and I exercise 5-7 days a week. I find great peace at the family lake cabin, and international exploration is my favorite kind of travel. (Scotland in August, baby!) I love concerts, sporting events, and museums, and I’d be absolutely happy to live in the country or suburbs. I have two cats, and I’d love to have a dog (maybe even a horse?) someday. I live fully in each present moment, and I live into the promise and hope for the future. I love succeeding in life, and I appreciate learning from my mistakes. I’m a tough-arse gal who beat cancer, and I cry at the end of “Field of Dreams”, “My Girl”, and “My Dog Skip”. I’d love to adopt or foster kids, and I’d be happy and honored to help raise a guy’s kids. I like working to make a difference, and I love having personal time with family and friends. (It’s all about the people in my life.) I have no desire for ambition or prestige, and I like to grow personally and professionally. I have a kick-arse sense of humor, and I always strive to be authentic and genuine. I love American football, and I’m trying to get better at archery. I think the NFL Draft should be a federal holiday, and I love watching the Scripps Spelling Bee each year. I waterski once a year, and I have a blast tubing. I am hugely resilient, and I’m not afraid to be vulnerable. I currently have cute and curly hair, and I’m excited to have long and straightened hair soon. It's growing... I’m a natural introvert, and I love surprising people with my extrovert tendencies. I’m considering writing a book someday, and I’m love binge-watching a good show (currently on The Americans). I enjoy a glass of red wine, and I’m building up my tolerance for Scottish whisky. I love my tablet and smartphone, and I could easily go tech-free for a weekend. I love embracing the unknown in life, and I’m intentional in taking steps to move in a desired direction. I’ve read 8 books – 9283 total pages – in 9 weeks, and I can quote the entire movie Airplane! I’m an ever-positive idealist, and I love the beautiful and messy reality of life. So if you're looking for someone who is authentic, resilient, caring, funny, easy-going, and upbeat - I'm your gal. Are you my guy?

Her interests

Book club , Camping , Coffee and conversation , Fishing/Hunting , Gardening/Landscaping , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Nightclubs/Dancing , Performing arts , Playing cards , Playing sports , Political interests , Religion/Spiritual , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Aerobics, Baseball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Football, Golf, Other types of exercise, Running, Skiing, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines

I exercise 5 or more times per week.


I don't believe in astrology


I have Cats

I like Birds, Dogs, Exotic Pets, Fish, Horses, Other

I have 2 cats. I hope to have a dog too. It's always been a dream of mine to have a horse. Maybe someday.

Political views


Favorite hot spots

Family lake cabin; Texas; Tex-Mex or non-chain restaurants; natural water (lakes, rivers, oceans...); places you can chill with a beer or glass of wine. Israel; Toledo, Spain; Florence, Italy; Versailles. My passport is updated; I'll travel anywhere.


Concordia College, Moorhead, MN

Favorite things

Traveling anywhere, Kindle, Converse shoes, unique restaurants, the Oxford comma, intricate mosaics, original art, dry wit, spontaneous standing ovations, NFL Draft Day, 80s cartoons, Comedy Central, salt-free margaritas, the golden hour.

For fun

Sports (football, baseball, basketball, hockey, curling...). Exercising. Live theater. Live comedy. Art. Music. Cabin lake activities. Netflix/Amazon Prime. Recreational reading. I'll try almost anything once (I could tell you some stories).

Last read

Currently reading "A History of Scotland: Look Behind the Mist and Myth of Scottish History" by Neil Oliver. I want to get the most out of my Scotland trip in August, so I'm soaking in as much as I can before I go.

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'7" (170cms) 5'3" (160cms) to 6'6" (198cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes: Blue No preference
Hair: Dark blonde No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Never, Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation: Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist No preference
Program staff member at a nonprofit.
Income: $35,001 to $50,000 No preference
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: No Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Wants kids: Definitely Definitely, Someday
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
Faith: Christian / Protestant Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Christian / Other
Languages: English English
Education: Graduate degree Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
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