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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
Not sure
White / Caucasian
Body type:
5'9" (175cms)
Christian / Other
No Way
Social Drinker
beautiful sorta (Ryan Adams' song for the uninformed!)

In her own words

This profile is Dostoevskian in length. Forgive me. :P CLIFF NOTES VERSION: I am smart and quirky and am your poster-child worrywart and yet probably the most bubbly girl you'll ever meet (when I'm not worrying, ha). I'm optimistically pessimistic, curious, intellectual, silly, absent-minded, and super loving and compassionate. I'm a Christian but not an evangelical. I identify more with the progressive movement. There. Cliff notes. I'm Stephanie. But I wish my name was something sexier, like Natalya. I clap my hands really rapidly when I'm excited. I'm also the silliest, funniest girl you'll ever meet. Apparently my friends think that's debatable, but they'll learn. I'm hilarious, trust me. ;) I like to listen to good music, see live shows, drink coffee, have deep conversations about more than just the weather (i.e. let's talk about the meaning of life! Or at least, your version of it), write novels (currently working on 2 and a memoir), and readreadread. What else? My favorite word is "ubiquitous." I am long-winded, random and tangential. I'm clumsy and totally NOT graceful and sometimes awkwardly cheerful. I'm pretty good at self-awareness, making people feel good about themselves, relating to people, seeing all sides to an issue, not always forming solid opinions, but rather, possessing malleable inclinations towards things ;) Most of my time outside of work (and, let's just be honest, AT work as well) is spent in introspection, self-analysis, and evaluation of my faith/beliefs/worldview/et cetera. I am trying to practice concepts such as self-forgetfulness, loving my neighbor more, and not being so self-absorbed. It's a flaw, and I'm working on it. :) There is oftentimes a lot of cognitive dissonance (psychology term, for those that get it) in my life. So I'm working on, you know, becoming more "Zen" or something. :P I'm also learning to accept that my mind is always going to be a curious cat. Sometimes I'm (adorably I hope?) neurotic, kind of like Jessie Spano in Saved by the Bell. I go to the gym 3-4 times per week, alternating between the elliptical and Zumba. I'm hella good at it, unless you count that one time I ran into the wall full of all the exercise equipment. Whoops.. Haha. ;)

Her interests

Book club , Camping , Coffee and conversation , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Religion/Spiritual

Sports & exercise

Dancing, Walking / Hiking

I exercise 1-2 times per week.




I like Cats, Dogs

Political views

Middle of the Road

Favorite hot spots

music venues (the canal club, the national, the 930 club in DC, etc.); used record stores (plan 9); used bookstores (chop suey); carytown shops; barnes and noble; borders (when it wasn't going out of business)


Capella University, Minneapolis, MN

Favorite things

favorite bands: mewithoutYou, sunny day real estate, jimmy eat world, menomena, minus the bear; favorite tv shows: true blood, one tree hill, grey's anatomy, the OC; favorite books: a prayer for owen meany, the poisonwood bible, the bell jar

For fun

I read books, including really eccentric ones. I listen to music. I go to live shows of my favorite bands. I write novels and memoirs. I nap (hehe). I think too much. I dance in my bedroom.

Last read

just finished "The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao" by Junot Diaz and "The Fault in Our Stars" by John Green. Currently reading "The Interestings" by Meg Wolitzer

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'9" (175cms) 5'9" (175cms) to 6'4" (193cms)
Body type: Full-figured No preference
Eyes: Blue No preference
Hair: Dark brown No preference
Smoke: No Way No preference
Drink: Social Drinker No preference
Occupation: Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness No preference
I'm a Behavioral Assistant providing in-home ABA therapy to children 12 and under with an Autism Spectrum Disorder diagnosis.
Income: $25,001 to $35,000 No preference
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: No No preference
Wants kids: Not sure No preference
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian No preference
Faith: Christian / Other Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Christian / Other
I am a struggling servant of Christ. My identity is found in Him. I'm more moderate-to-liberal theologically speaking, but it's constantly in flux because I am constantly growing, re-evaluating, etc. Rather than fickle, I find this outlook healthy.
Languages: English, Spanish No preference
Education: Graduate degree No preference
I'm currently earning my masters degree in mental health counseling to be a clinical therapist once I get licensed. I am also considering getting my BCBA to work more with the Autism population as well. My focus will be on children and youth.
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