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46 year old woman | Rye Brook, NY, United States | Seeking men 40-54 within 30 miles

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Have kids:
Yes, and they sometimes live at home (3)
Wants kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
5'7" (170cms)
Christian / Catholic
No Way
Social Drinker
Happiness is a choice. Like anything worthwhile, it is directly correlated with the effort you make to create and sustain it.

In her own words

I'm here because my long-term objective is to find a partner and best friend...'s the difficult part, describing who I am and what I'm looking for: First, I'm an active, vibrant and youthful woman who stays in shape and eats healthy (yes, I splurge occasionally.) I'm intelligent and humorous...and up to date on current events. I am not looking for a contest- but, I'm aware of the world and like to talk about a variety of topics. I enjoy sports, theater and art (although, I have not spent much time on any of these in the past year-please help me!) I'm mom to 3 boys (twins-9, singleton-15) and spend a good part of my time throwing a ball in the backyard, or jumping on the trampoline with them. They think I'm silly, and tough and must be reminded that I am not a tackling dummy! I always believe that things will work out in the end. I'm not overly optimistic, or naive. I'm definitely a realist, but I possess a faith in my life taking the shape it's meant to. I have expectations of how people should treat one another, but I'm not high-maintenance or demanding. I'm not interested in creating or surrounding myself with drama - life hands you it, regardless. My career is rewarding (in addition to allowing me to live with reduced financial stress.) I also recognize the value in taking time for myself. I believe that kids sense when you want to be with them. I adore my boys and cherish the time we're together. I don't know if this would be possible if I didn't take care of myself as well. Who am I looking for? Someone to make me laugh...someone to keep me light, someone who I can look forward to, someone who is comfortable in his skin and can express himself with ease and self-assurance. I don't think similar interests make people more compatible-Chemistry and genuine respect usually work for me. I will be attracted to the man I'm with, but, it is personal and cannot be defined - as it is different with each individual. I can juggle a great many responsibilities independently. But, as time passes, I recognize that I miss having someone that I can connect with, beyond my extended family. I'd like to meet a special person, get to know him and feel it grow and become more meaningful...I want to find passion and friendship in one package... Do you know what I mean? I'm looking for someone who is ready...let me know when you are.

Her interests

Book club , Camping , Coffee and conversation , Business networking , Cooking , Dining out , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Nightclubs/Dancing , Performing arts , Religion/Spiritual , Travel/Sightseeing , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Aerobics, Baseball, Bowling, Cycling, Other types of exercise, Walking / Hiking, Yoga

I exercise 3-4 times per week.




I like Cats, Dogs, Fish, Horses, Other

Just adopted two black-and-white 2-year old cats. They have been with us for 6 months now and we are loving the experience. They are very well-behaved and it is teaching my sons responsibility and unconditional love.

Political views

Middle of the Road

Favorite hot spots

I'm addicted to traveling and exploring. Favs- US: N. Orleans, Miami, Chicago, San Fran. Europe: London, Santorini, Florence/Rome Amsterdam. LOVE island getaways too! A frozen Margarita with salt and a view can change your perspective quickly.


Purchase College, State University of New York, Purchase, NY

Favorite things

Game of Thrones, This is Us; love to go back and rewatch Mad Men; rock/alternative (Kings of Leon, Neon Trees, Foo Fighters), 80's playlists, LOVE-Sushi or bacon, go figure(?) boy hugs are the best, a walk at dusk, sitting on my deck with friends.

For fun

My favorite ways to spend my downtime are: with close friends-doing anything, sporting events, trying a new restaurant, seeing a concert (rock, pop, as long as it's live I'm game) the beach, biking, whipping up something new-no recipe, reading novels

Last read

These days it's mostly The New York disturbing as that is!

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'7" (170cms) 5'11" (180cms) to 6'5" (195cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes: Blue Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair: Light brown Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Silver, Dark blonde, Grey, Platinum, Bald
Smoke: No Way No Way, Occasionally, Cigar aficionado
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation: Executive / Management Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Other profession, Architecture / Interior design
I'm an HR Exec for a pharmaceutical company and I really enjoy my work. I'm one of those lucky people that is happy to get up every day!
Income: I'll tell you later $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship: Divorced Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids: Yes, and they sometimes live at home (3) Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live at home
Wants kids: No, but it's OK if my partner has kids Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian White / Caucasian, Other
I'm a mixture of Polish/Italian and I'm proud of both heritages...
Faith: Christian / Catholic Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other
It's part of who I am. I don't expect someone to have the exact same conviction I do, but, I want someone to realize this is a part of me. I am convinced you can be smart, and believe in God.
Religious Attitude: I'll tell you later No preference
It's part of who I am. I don't expect someone to have the exact same conviction I do, but, I want someone to realize this is a part of me. I am convinced you can be smart, and believe in God.
Languages: English English
Education: Graduate degree Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
Columbia University, Teachers College
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