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46 year old man | Newark, NJ, USA | Seeking women 39-54 within 20 miles

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Have kids:
Wants kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Black / African descent
Body type:
Athletic and toned
5'10" (177cms)
Christian / Other
No Way
Social Drinker
An Ode to Etymology, Observations and other...

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An Ode to Etymology, Observations and other white elephants in the room..... So for 2015 I decided to update my summary, eh I'm year older thus a smidge of wisdom should've seeped in a la osmosis or at a minimum reading these profiles. Top 5 qualities/attributes a guy should have Honesty Funny, Funnny hey gotta be Funnnnnny but must have a serious side Confident but not cocky or arrogant Sarcastic but in a goooooooooooood way not mean spirited Not a PLAYAHER only games he's allowed to play are scrabble, charades involves to many hand movements he might be (ominmous music) on the DL Don't be a SERIAL DATER Most importantly DON'T WASTE or WAIST (Yea I've seen it repeatedly) her TIME. So for 2015 I'm taking all this sage adivce to heart and working on ME!!!! Anytime you want to improve or know something it's time to GOOOGLE the Self-Help sections in book stores are so obsolete and I'll probably only meet other guys working on themselves who aren't as tech saavy as ME (oops better really work on the non-arrogant thingy) I'll beat them to the punch. So offfffffff I go and start with HONESTY So I came upon this story of this old dude name Diogenes at first I thought it was a cough medicine but uhhh this guy would walk around ancient Greece in the daytime with a lamp and when asked what he was doing he'd reply "Looking for an honest man" hmmm that was over 1000 years ago so I guess Honesty is still a rare commodity so might do well to stop asking for it... Just an observation but this is about my journey of self improvement thus I clicked on and asked how could I improve sooooo ding ding checked all the stuff in my profile I hear complaints about: Relationship Status Height Body Type Eye Color Exercise Frequency Children Want Kids This is all accurate Booooooooooyah Honesty covered movvvvvvvving on, Funny Seems a lot of women have met pretty dull or very serious men out there and are clearly looking to bring the joy of laughter into their lives not wanting to disappoint watched the latest Youtube snippets of Chris Rock/Russell Peters/Bill Burr/Dat Phan and Geroge Lopez Booooooooooooyah got this funny covered across all ethnic spectrums I'm owwwning this improvement thingy(Fudge arrogance uggh) Sarcastic but not MEAN Whoa this took quite a bit of research but the long short is as long as the sarcasm isn't directed at my future date or any causes she holds dearly I think it's all good. Plaayyyyyaher Did lots or research on this also male/female perspective sum it up as DON'T GET CAUGHT (see this comment is the type of sarcasm and irreverence that could be determined to be mean/cocky lol) Serial Dater We are all serial profile daters yay'n and nay'n at the swipe of a finger and if you don't go on mulitple dates do you just stay stuck with the initial choice.... Whatevz this is under further review Wasting/Waisting(love seeing that) Her Time I mean really, really we aren't in relationships so we kinda got a plethora of time and like do you have project plan timelines I mean some people 42 and over say they definitely want a child I'm assuming the old fashioned way thus just doing basic math being conservative 2yrs to know someone another 1.5 to plan nuptials, 1.8 just kinda have some you and her time soooooooo that means approximately close to 46 REALLY REALLY that's the time to start the family. I have seen some forward thinkers that adopted or invitro but I digress, BUT REALLY. More research is needed keeping that under Whatevz ETYMOLOGY.....Forthcoming but a brief preview: If you selected 4-5x your workout frequency and you have selected "Athletic and tone" your body should reflect this fact seriously look under HONESTY :P (working on my nice sarcasm but those that are Honest I'm sure your laughing because Male profiles must reflect this also hehehehehe) Stopping before I contract carpal tunnel or hate mail.

His interests

Cooking , Dining out , Gardening/Landscaping , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Exploring new areas , Playing sports , Political interests , Religion/Spiritual , Travel/Sightseeing , Video games , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Basketball, Cycling, Football, Other types of exercise, Weights / Machines

I exercise 5 or more times per week.


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Political views

Middle of the Road

Favorite hot spots

Hells Kitchen LES Costa Rica DR Junoon Havana Central Thin Crust Pizza MamaJuana Havana De Alma Pazza Notte La Bodega Negra Salinas Zengo Macanudo

Favorite things

Breaking Bad Top Boy Peep Show These days I'm leaning more towards Netflix and Foreign films/docs(Dancing Boys of Aghanistan) and some UK series as they prove to be more cerebral and enteraining than most US fare Pedro Almodovar

For fun

Reading, Independent and Foreign Films Travel Continually reseeding my lawn from squirrel abuse ughhhh Wood Working Short conversations with Narrow Minded People

Last read

A book on developing the skill of Critical Thinking Shantaram A Peoples History of the United States Bible Gita Most things Gladwell

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 5'10" (177cms) 5'0" (152cms) to 5'10" (177cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned Slender, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Brown No preference
Hair: Bald No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker No preference
Occupation: Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering No preference
Income: $150,001+ $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship: Divorced No preference
Have kids: No Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live at home
Wants kids: No, but it's OK if my partner has kids Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity: Black / African descent Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Other
Faith: Christian / Other No preference
Languages: English English
Education: Bachelors degree No preference
But most importantly well read (ahhh that is left up to interpretation)
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