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28 year old man | Los Angeles, CA, USA | Seeking women 18-35 within 50 miles

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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
6'5" (195cms)
Christian / Protestant
No Way
Social Drinker
The day after tomorrow is the third day of the rest of your life.

In his own words

First things first, yes I actually went to Harvard, no I'm not a jerk-wad. Stereotypes are lame! As for the "real" me, I'm one of those rare freaks of nature who's both insanely ambitious and really relaxed. Nothing, and I mean nothing gets in my way, but most of the time I'm too busy laughing to notice which way I'm going. Last year I was in the middle of buying a car when I decided, "Hey, I think I'll leave the country and not come back for a year. I guess they can keep the car parked, right?" Wrong, but that's okay, because somebody picked it up. Which is precisely my point: life is EASY, BREEZY, BEAUTIFUL...Cover Girl. Or something like that. I guess what I'm saying is that I get the whole "being motivated" thing (believe me, Julius Caesar was less motivated than I am), but life has to be about more than hurtles, otherwise...why bother? That pretty much explains why I'm on this site: I'm tired of settling for people who don't inspire me, dammit, who remind me of everyone else I've ever dated, or who hate life for some strange reason. Especially since I moved back to LA a few months ago, dating has been riiiiiidiculous. Women all want the same things: a guy with money, a guy with manners, a guy with looks and/or a sense of humor. Okay, great, you've just described ten million men, including me, but what about BEYOND all that? It's the little things, the crap you can't convey in one of these silly blurbs, that really matter. People out here ignore the little things! They'd rather tick boxes than live life. One last thing about myself: I'm super gentlemanly. I'm into manners and making people feel special and all that mushy stuff. Not in a creepy way, but in the, "You're awesome, therefore I'm going to prevent this door from slamming you in the face" kind of way. All those silly conventions may be outdated to some people, but I think they're FUN, not to mention a great way to demonstrate that you weren't raised by wolves. On a related note, I'm a man of my word and, according to some people, "honorable," which sounds a little 19th-century but what the heck, I'll run with it.

His interests

Coffee and conversation , Dining out , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Nightclubs/Dancing , Travel/Sightseeing

Sports & exercise

Baseball, Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Cycling, Football, Other types of exercise, Running, Skiing, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, VolleyBall, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines

I exercise 3-4 times per week.




I like Birds, Cats, Dogs, Exotic Pets, Fish, Horses, Other

Political views

Some other viewpoint

Favorite hot spots

New Zealand (prettiest place ever), Hong Kong (coolest city ever), and Thailand (mmm food). I'm kind of addicted to traveling, so it's hard to choose. As for America, I'm from the South, so that's gotta go on the list. That and Disneyland: amazing.


Harvard University, Cambridge, MA

Favorite things

When it comes to music I'm all over the place: Radiohead, The Cool Kids, Miike Snow, The Avett Brothers, Kid Cudi, Daft Punk, etc. I love TV with all my heart, especially Community, 30 Rock, Dexter, Arrested Development, The Office, and Mad Men

For fun

Movies rock, love museums, and love the gym. I run a lot, take pictures, drive around, do extreme sports, and eat copious quantities of food. My mantra: live life like you're on vacation.

Last read

Me Talk Pretty One Day, by David Sedaris

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 6'5" (195cms) 5'0" (152cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned Slender, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Hazel No preference
Hair: Light brown No preference
Smoke: No Way No preference
Drink: Social Drinker No preference
Occupation: Self-Employed / Entrepreneur No preference
I started a company a while back that did pretty well, so I'm not obsessed with money anymore. Trying to leave behind a legacy--if you want to know more, just ask. ;)
Income: $150,001+ No preference
Relationship: Never Married No preference
Have kids: No No preference
Wants kids: Definitely No preference
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian No preference
I may be the whitest man on earth. Family came over on the Mayflower AND signed the Declaration of Independence. If you're going to be a boring white guy, be the MOST boring white guy, right?
Faith: Christian / Protestant No preference
Languages: English, French, Spanish English
Education: Bachelors degree No preference
Studied History & English. Thought about law school, decided that was boring, and never looked back. I am/was the national debate champion, so watch yourself! (As stuffy/preppy/lame as all that sounds, I swear I'm cool. Just you wait.)
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