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41 year old man | Washington, DC, USA | Seeking women 27-40 within 30 miles

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Have kids:
Wants kids:
Black / African descent
Body type:
A few extra pounds
6'1" (185cms)
Christian / Other
No Way
Social Drinker
Seeking the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: the right wrong person.

In his own words

Reconstruction has been shut down. Finding a friend shouldn't so hard damn hard. I guess everyone is look for the bigger better deal. Does anyone else feel lost out here?(rhetorical)..Account grudgingly will be renewed for a month.. Peace and many blessings to you in your search. There are times when I wish life was like the movies. Then I remember its so much more fun interesting to write my own script. Cue the lights! Amel's "For Real" is setting the scene and tone of the score. “Sifting through rocks trying to find a diamond! Can U handle the pressure?” “One man’s quest to find the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”(TM) Starring as leading man: Vanillasky Co Starring as leading lady" An anonymous gorgeous woman. Midwest born D.C. transplant simply seeks to find ultimately a friend, partner, at some point wife via this medium or else where. Although he has been in the area almost 7 years he still maintain Midwestern sensibilities as it relates to how he treats people. If he makes eye contact with you he says hello and to the dismay of some "strong independent" women he hold doors open. He is wise enough to know that he knows nothing at all. He accepts that he doesn't have it all figured out.... (Well kinda he wrestles with it some still) He realizes that he just may have been going about this whole dating thing all wrong. “We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.” I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way. Let our scars fall in love.” ― Galway Kinnell I could never express it in such an eloquent way... Cue the orchestra: I can live, I can love, I can be better with you,... for real. LEADING LADY(that is you): A gorgeous woman woman (ethnicity is no longer top priority) tall or short, from the darkest to the lightest hues of the rainbow, happy to be nappy, to curly to straight, long to short hair. She understands relationships require work commitment and dedication. In short she finds him to be the right wrong thing for her. And as above the problem she wants to have.. Could you be the problem that I want to have? Could I be yours? Let's explore

His interests

Book club , Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Political interests , Religion/Spiritual , Travel/Sightseeing , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Aerobics, Bowling, Dancing, Football, Golf, Other types of exercise, Swimming, Weights / Machines

I exercise 5 or more times per week.




I like Dogs

Political views

Some other viewpoint

Favorite hot spots

Howard Theater, Bues Alley, Carter Barron, Lounge of III, Busboys Poets on Dave Busters(4 mindless fun). My neighborhood: (Eastern Market, Barracks Row, Navy Yard.) GOAPE DC, Chennai, India.

Favorite things

Game of Thrones, Newsroon, Falling Skies, Defiance, Sunday morning political news shows, Meetup, Thingstododc, Gospel music, New Age, Soul, hip hop, reggae dancehall, jazz,

For fun

I enjoy working out at LA Fitness. Running/joggigng I could use a partner. Go cowboys! bowling(but not well) dancing but need the right partner. Ice Skating(falling really)

Last read

The Shack, The Aleph, Common's autobiography.The Christian Atheist, The conversation by Hill Harper(organizing a conversation), The Power of NOW, Souls of Black folks, Kindred, Faces at the Bottom of the Well,The Alchemist, Yurugu.

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 6'1" (185cms) 5'0" (152cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type: A few extra pounds Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Brown No preference
Hair: Black No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation: I'll tell you later No preference
Income: $50,001 to $75,000 No preference
Relationship: Divorced Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: No No
Wants kids: Definitely Definitely, Someday
Ethnicity: Black / African descent No preference
I am a child of Africa born into the Diaspora! You simply have to like want and desire me and be about me. Life is too short to be concerned with anything else.
Faith: Christian / Other Christian / LDS, Christian / Other
I am a christian however believe god is so much bigger than what the small mind and ego of man can comprehend. I believe the creator has revealed himself/herself in many ways to many people..
Languages: English English
Education: PhD / Post Doctoral Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
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