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41 year old man | Scottsdale, AZ, USA | Seeking women 31-39 within 50 miles

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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
6'2" (187cms)
Spiritual but not religious
Social Drinker
Breathe easy. Relax. The worst is over. :)...

In his own words

Breathe easy. Relax. The worst is over. :) Balance is good. Intimacy, romance, companionship . . . kids. Looking for the whole package. I play well with type B's--i.e. someone who identifies more as a human being, rather than a human doing--again, it's a balance. Bonus for kind eyes, an easy smile, and a sensitive disposition. Curiosity, creativity, and novelty inspire me. Right now, I'm taking an intro class for Interior Design. For the past few years, moonlighting with a little remodeling and leasing of some residential rentals (day job is commercial property management) has been a rewarding creative outlet; before that, film and television; before that, teaching high school French and Film, and a lot of community theatre; before that, the military (Because the military is such a bastian of free thinking and self-expression, right? Well, that would be a pretty generous way to put it, but I did enjoy the extraordinary challenges, the incredible people, and the privilege to study yet another language that eventually took me to South Korea for over a year.); before that, academia: Philosophy, French, Theatre; before that, bouncing around Europe for school and odd jobs. (Dang. I need to renew my passport.); oh, and before that, band camp, of course. If it looks like we may make a good pair on paper, say hello. I prefer meeting over writing for days, and calling trumps texting in my opinion. Hope you feel the same. According to the Myers-Briggs personality test, I'm an INFP. But more importantly, for those of you looking for a coffee buddy, I like the occasional latte or iced coffee, but I normally take my caffeine cold, carbonated, and laced with aspartame. While I hope we share interests in creativity, world peace, and kids, if a shared passion for diet coke is missing, I'm flexible. Okay, the hard part: family planning. If there's a spark of a match, it helps if we have a common interest in raising children from scratch--or heck, even adoption. If that makes sense, we're probably on the same page. Cheers. - B Disclosure: I'm 45. Match age may vary depending on mood and day of the week. Mood may depend on amount of incoming winks from mom's friends.

His interests

Camping , Coffee and conversation , Dining out , Gardening/Landscaping , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Playing sports , Political interests , Shopping/Antiques , Video games

Sports & exercise

Bowling, Cycling, Other types of exercise, Skiing, Walking / Hiking, Yoga

I exercise 3-4 times per week.




I like Cats, Dogs

All cats are cool. And if it's small enough to run on AAA batteries, it's not a dog. Unless, of course, it's a pug.

Political views

Middle of the Road

Favorite hot spots

A steam room. Followed, of course, by a cold plunge!


Pepperdine University, Malibu, CA

Favorite things

NPR; Sia; Lana Del Rey; Birdy; Neko Case; Gillian Welch; Mazzy Star; Damien Rice; My Chemical Romance; Bowie; Groove Armada; ELO; Rosie Thomas; Imogen Heap; Be Good Tanyas; Eagles; Fiona Apple; Florence..Machine; Kasabian; Black Keys; Lndsy Stirling

For fun

Recreational Remodeling and Design Goodness; power naps; chugging milk from the carton; eating out; a bike or motorcycle ride; a good read; some good tunes; a walk, hike, or swim--something active (more recreational than competitive).

Last read

Game x Thrones, Glass Castle, Cement Planet, Choices, Losing Control Finding Serenity, Pricing the Future, In the Garden of Beasts, Lincoln Lawyer, Reckless Endangerment, The Grief Club, Resiliency Advantage, Gifts of Imperfection, Quiet, Being Wrong

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 6'2" (187cms) 5'5" (165cms) to 6'1" (185cms)
Body type: About average Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Hazel Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair: Dark brown Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Silver, Dark blonde, Grey, Platinum
Smoke: Occasionally No Way, Occasionally, Cigar aficionado, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker
Occupation: Financial / Accounting / Real Estate Other profession
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: No No
Wants kids: Definitely Definitely
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian White / Caucasian, Other
Faith: Spiritual but not religious Spiritual but not religious
Languages: English, French, Korean English
Education: Bachelors degree Bachelors degree
BA Philosophy; Linguistic Study DLI
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