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43 year old man | North Hills, CA, USA | Seeking women 25-35 within 50 miles

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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
Black / African descent
Body type:
About average
5'9" (175cms)
Spiritual but not religious
No Way
Not here anymore.

In his own words

I enjoy the company and conversation of people who are well read, well informed and can provide thought provoking discourse or debate. Being able to laugh at yourself is a gift, one I practice daily. Sarcasm comes standard. I love learning, travelling, reading. I glory in some of the most inane things; a sunrise, a vibrant street scene, a scoop of pecan praline ice cream. I enjoy being active; i used to play rugby until a spate of recent injuries. I ride my bicycle frequently. Spiritual without being religious, somewhat introverted, loyal to a fault, a dragon slayer and unicorn hunter to boot. There aren't any left, so that should tell you something. They disturb the peace, and i like peace. And tranquility. I try to enjoy my life. There are millions of people in far worse situations than I am and I try to remain cognisant and appreciative of that. I grew up in Africa, poverty and strife are not unknown to me. Blessings counted. I believe in the mantra "when you lose, don't lose the lesson." I am an optimist. Or at least I think I am. I can always see the sunny side. Those who know me would say I can be pessimistic. I prefer to think of that as being nothing other than an "experienced realist." I'm the guy who responds "the glass is full, half water, half air." I'm looking for a happy, active, introspective person with a fantastic sense of humour and adventure. Someone who want's to see the world, and knows exactly where in the world they would like to say they've been. I prefer someone who is multilingual. If you love dragons, well, that might be a problem.... Genuine Uncomplicated Mindful Active Zealous about being active. Zulu. ^email me here or yodel. Either way, let me know you're interested so we can chat.

His interests

Camping , Dining out , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Playing sports , Political interests , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Watching sports

Sports & exercise

Auto racing / Motorcross, Basketball, Cycling, Football, Other types of exercise, Soccer

I exercise 3-4 times per week.


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Political views

Some other viewpoint

Favorite hot spots

Victoria Falls. God's window. Uluru. I'd like to visit the small towns in the US named after a capital city elsewhere on the planet. The 14 wonders (7 natural, 7 man made) & visiting each continent are must dos.

Favorite things

Current affairs. I can laugh at just about anything. So comedy. European sports cars from the late 60s. Motorcycles that can traverse the world. Bob Marley's music.

For fun

Rugby. Cycling. Relaxing with friends. Bookstores. Hiking. Comedy clubs. Live music. I like architecture, grand vistas, moonlit lakes, drives to nowhere in particular, reading, learning, challenging my mind, laughing till my sides hurt and lots more

Last read

Hunger Games Trilogy. The Four Truths. Just finished Game of Thrones. I can't find the 5th book in the series. It's driving me crazy. I read voraciously (when I do) mostly fiction, mostly adventure/ suspense/ action/ mystery

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 5'9" (175cms) 3'0" (91cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type: About average About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes: Brown No preference
Hair: I'll tell you later No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Never Social Drinker
Occupation: I'll tell you later No preference
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Never Married No preference
Have kids: No No
Wants kids: Someday Definitely, Someday, Not sure, Probably not
Ethnicity: Black / African descent No preference
Born and raised in Africa, I am half Zulu, half Xhosa, half Awesome. But I don't like that word; it's overused.
Faith: Spiritual but not religious Spiritual but not religious
I believe in the biblical God but am saddened by the modern church. I practice Ubuntu. Not the programming language.
Languages: English, Other English
Education: Some college No preference
All life is learning. Taking a step back to learn the lesson is something I strive to keep doing, in every circumstance. Fortunately i'm usually a quick study.
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