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42 year old woman | Oak Park, IL, USA | Seeking men 35-45 within 50 miles

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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
Black / African descent
Body type:
5'8" (172cms)
Christian / Protestant
No Way
Social Drinker
je ne sais pas

In her own words

I strive to see beauty in everything--in people, in nature, in art, in culture, on the el, in the exciting, and in the mundane. I work to rectify injustice--never make peace with oppression. I smile and laugh as much as possible--make me smile! I seek to be present--engaging whomever happens to be in my path and observing the nuances of where ever I find myself in the moment. I love to travel and the most beautiful hospitality I have experienced has been in the poorest countries in the world. I seek to emulate that generosity of spirit and to cling to material things loosely. I love my family and friends--loyalty to my favorite people in the world is crucial. People inspire me. I believe that there is more to life than meets the eye--I nurture my soul and spirit by practicing my faith and using my God-given talents and gifts to give back to the universe and to the most vulnerable in society because injustice really irritates me. In a nutshell, I believe in going beyond the surface to see people's essence with the eyes of my heart. Yes, attraction really matters, but I am interested in meeting you, not your representative (Chris Rock) and I presume you desire the same. Peace!

Her interests

Book club , Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Political interests , Religion/Spiritual , Shopping/Antiques , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Running, Yoga

I exercise 5 or more times per week.


I like Dogs

I love chocolate labradors but must live vicariously through my friend's lab since I don't have one!

Political views


Favorite hot spots

US: Chi, NYC, San Diego, DC, LA/Int'l: Agra, New Delhi, Cape Town, Soweto, Lima, Victoria (BC), Cuenca, Dakaar, Teguc, Paris, Orvieto, Rome, Kigali, Buja--basicaly, I've loved every country I've visited.


Rice University, Houston, TX

Favorite things

Good food, good wine, and good conversation with equally good people at fav restaurants--Purple Pig--need I say more? Mexican--New Rebozo; Peking Duck--Sun Wah BBQ in Uptown, Ethiopian--Black Diamond

For fun

dining out, taking in a play or live music, dancing, singing, running, enjoying people, writing, reading, cooking, baking, entertaining friends and fam, shopping for great deals, decorating

Last read

"Open City" by Teju Cole. I also read the New York Times, The Atlantic, The Economist and other publications like the Washington Post

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'8" (172cms) 5'9" (175cms) to 6'11" (210cms)
Body type: Slender Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Brown No preference
Hair: Black No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way, Occasionally, Cigar aficionado
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation: Education / Teacher / Professor No preference
I am an Assoc. Prof of Political Science
Income: I'll tell you later $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: No Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Wants kids: Definitely Definitely, Someday, Not sure
Ethnicity: Black / African descent No preference
Apparently, I have ancestors from Madagascar, the Iberian Peninsula, the Mediterranean and that's only on maternal side.
Faith: Christian / Protestant Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other
Languages: English English
Education: PhD / Post Doctoral Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
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