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48 year old man | Bakersfield, CA, USA | Seeking women 35-50 within 65 miles

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Have kids:
Wants kids:
Not sure
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
5'11" (180cms)
Spiritual but not religious
No Way
Social Drinker
Seeking a woman ready for a relationship with a man. No lingering relationships? Not afraid to commit? Done playing games? Inquire within.

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I am a confident, intelligent, caring, compassionate, independent and self-sufficient man. I know who I am and what my limitations are, as well my capabilities. I value life, respectfulness, trustworthiness and I abide by the "Golden Rule." The following may be viewed by some as intense but I'm really just trying to be clear, purposeful and honest, isn't that what we all want? While it is my hope to meet and develop a great friendship with someone, the effort must be in pursuit of a meaningful, serious and committed relationship. If you are afraid of the word relationship then stop reading now. What follows is for an adult's eyes. I am seeking a well-adjusted, confident, self-sufficient woman who is free of lingering love interests or entanglements. If you're just looking for a distraction until the so-called real love-of-your life comes around then keep looking. I am not a pit stop, I am the end game. At the point we should agree that there is mutual attraction, trust and friendship, then I need a woman who can be happy building a relationship solely with me. A serious, strong relationship cannot be developed if one's feelings and time are being split between multiple love interests, dating others or still dragging old flames around in your heart. I threw my "little black book" out; I would require the same of you. Moreover, if you are the type to always be looking over your shoulder, or mine, for someone new; well first let me say...shame on you!; secondly...please don't waste my time. I'm done with indecisive woman. No Flibbertigibbets! I appreciate woman who declare themselves to be strong, self-sufficient and who know what/who they want; but, it's even better if you mean it! Equally important to know is that once I am involved with someone, I am a physical person. I need to share a mutual need for intimacy. I'm not implying adolescent self-indulgence, I am referring to more romantic notions of holding hands, hugs, kisses, closeness. If you're not comfortable with that sort of intimacy, then I will not be right for you. However, if you are ready for a kindred friendship with hopes of developing a lifelong relationship then I am that guy. Also, in regards to communication. What is a relationship without it? From the moment you decide to communicate with me, I am engaged; meaning: if you took the time to talk to me, I will make the time to talk to you! If you are "playing the field" and add me to your list of "possible" then I understand, BUT, if I take the time to communicate with you then I would expect a reply. If you are aloof and unconcerned enough to wait days or weeks before replying to me, then let me save you the time now, that will not work for me (refer to the last sentence of the first paragraph). Also, since I am not a mind reader, if you want me to know something...tell me. Moreover, I make time for the things and people that I'm interested in. Slow or no response tells me you have too much on your plate or are not least about me. C'est la vie!! Also, while I don't subscribe to any particular religious denomination, I am Christian and I am spiritual. I believe in God's plan and divinity and that things do happen for a reason. However, I do not hear voices or read every occurrence in my life as God speaking to me. I do believe in self determination and making ones own opportunities and way through life. God may have created the ways and means for all things but I also believe it is our "free will" to mold His creation to our needs and dreams as He has seen fit to permit us. Submitted from mobile

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Book club , Camping , Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Fishing/Hunting , Hobbies and crafts , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Playing cards , Political interests , Travel/Sightseeing , Watching sports , Wine tasting

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Auto racing / Motorcross, Baseball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Dancing, Football, Golf, Other types of exercise, Walking / Hiking

I exercise 1-2 times per week.




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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 5'11" (180cms) 5'0" (152cms) to 6'3" (190cms)
Body type: About average No preference
Eyes: Blue No preference
Hair: Dark blonde No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation: Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering No preference
Income: $50,001 to $75,000 No preference
Relationship: Divorced No preference
Have kids: No No preference
Wants kids: Not sure No preference
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian No preference
Faith: Spiritual but not religious No preference
Languages: English English
Education: Some college No preference
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