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45 year old man | San Francisco, CA, USA | Seeking women 33-49 within 25 miles

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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
Not sure
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
5'7" (170cms)
No Way
Social Drinker
I've moved recently to the City, and love my...

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I've moved recently to the City, and love my new neighborhood. And know SF not really at all. some random stuff: I'm a lot smart alecky; a little bookish. I exercise--I've been diligent about taking a spinning/TRX class and I've been known to do long bike rides on the weekend. I clean up quite nicely. from my photos you can tell I do a pretty good deadpan; though I've been known to smile on camera. while neither prig nor scold, I've got a solid moral compass. I find the semicolon a jealous mistress. I'm DJ-ing at a local college station. I've always wanted to do that. I've got a good job at a nonprofit. I'm not all that into watching sports. my mom's side of the family are Scots and if coaxed sufficiently I can pull off a pretty solid glaswegian. I'll half-assedly meditate to moderate an innate intensity, and I'll work the rest of it out at the gym. I do like my brain engaged, but all cerebral is a bit dry. I have traveled and plan to again. some traits: 1. I'm not a dichotomy. 2. I promise to take an interest in your interests. I'll ask you questions as part of a conversation. 3. if you're really 41, I don't need to see "39" in your profile. 4. b/t college and law school, I spent 3 years as a community organizer. 5. I always say "please" and "thank you"---but with an edge. 6. I grew up in Louisiana. 7. I like to enumerate. 8. I can promise high quality banter. I don't have a type. more than anything else, though, I'm looking for sense of humor, smarts, and intellectual curiosity. And pluck---a little pluck goes a long way. Plus---women are generally a lot better than guys at recognizing their own emotional needs, being able to articulate them, and knowing how to get them met healthily---I've got the basics down and am looking for someone there herself. In other words, I want what most humans want: someone smart and good-humored; who's kind, even-keeled, and who it just feels right and easy to be around. it'd also be nice to share some traits/interests. and it'd be cool to find something equal parts cole porter sophistication and brill building longing.

His interests

Book club , Camping , Coffee and conversation , Dining out , Hobbies and crafts , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Political interests , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering

Sports & exercise

Cycling, Other types of exercise, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines

I exercise 5 or more times per week.




I like Cats, Dogs

I've made my peace with cats and now count some of them among my best friends.

Political views


Favorite hot spots

I don't know much of SF yet, though SFMOMA is favorite; classic hotel bars are kinda cool. I have lived in and still love Portland, OR; friends there too. Istanbul and Granada are next on the trip list


Rutgers, The State University of New Jersey, New Brunswick, Piscataway, NJ

Favorite things

I play guitar, somewhat lazily, and photograph, when in the groove, seriously. finally gotten around to the Magnetic Fields & Brian Eno, and appear to be approaching detente with prog rock. always: coltrane, scott walker, beefheart, a. king, b. evans

For fun

exploring SF. looking for open jam sessions here in town. I'm really into this radio show I'm doing. I usually make a photo trip to the deep South once a year. I literally enjoyed Graceland non-ironically.

Last read

lately: moby-dick--who knew existentialist novels were being written in mid 19th-century America? A book on the New Deal, and one on modernism, graphic novels. Next up: philip roth's patrimony.

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 5'7" (170cms) 5'0" (152cms) to 5'11" (180cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Blue Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair: Dark blonde Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Silver, Dark blonde, Grey, Platinum
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Never, Social Drinker
Occupation: Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Student, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Architecture / Interior design
I'm a fundraiser for a local nonprofit.
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids: No No, Yes, and they live away from home
Wants kids: Not sure Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, White / Caucasian
more precisely, my family is Jewish and Scottish
Faith: Atheist Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Hindu, Jewish, Muslim / Islam, Spiritual but not religious
Atheist, with an apparently unshakable strain of Calvinism
Languages: English English
Education: Graduate degree Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
law school at GW in DC. I miss the Metro.
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