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44 year old man | Oakland, CA, USA | Seeking women 33-53 within 500 miles


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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
I'll tell you later
Black / African descent
Body type:
About average
6'3" (190cms)
Spiritual but not religious
No Way
Social Drinker
To love beauty is to see light."- Victor Hugo

In his own words

My formal Op-Ed piece! You ready? Online personals are funny; there are so many perfect people online. I never thought I could find tons of perfect people online, if I knew this, I'd just quit meeting people in person. I might be a great catch; however who doesn?t think that about themselves according to these online profiles! However, friendship comes first! Why? Well, nothing can last, grow nor mature without their being a great friendship first and foremost. Passion is a major component in a friendship or relationship, opposites do attract, but not really! You really do need to be feeling the vibe, interests and passionate interest of someone because clich?s do not always work in the real world! Forget the future, the present moment rocks! How about eating a cheap burrito off the taco truck? Hanging out in SF with no real agenda? Jumping into the car heading down Highway 1 not really being concerned with where we end up for a change? Going out to dinner and having fun even if the food aint much to write home about? Can you really kick it? Hiking in Marin? Weekend trips to Vegas and its okay if you cannot dance because the last time I checked, I was not invited to be on Dancing With The Stars either, so let?s do it! Weekend trips to San Diego, Seattle, you name it, I will go! Heck, who wants to be bored even if you are Ms. Right, dig it? Heck, let?s go dancing sometimes then I?ll tell you about the holes in my socks sometimes! LOL Back to my Op-Ed piece, mutual shared passions just gives you that Best friend or soul mate feeling. That person is always there for you no matter what happens. I think every successful person in history needed an environment that supported their growth. Oh, we are not each other?s sociologist, psychologist nor therapist, if something is wrong with you, don?t be cheap, hire a therapist, I?m not looking for that type of role! Relationships are not about being a social worker 24/7! LOL same goes for me too! Plus, when you reach your 40s, I just think you get tired of meeting flaky, immature and lost people that want you to be incredible so they can hide their lackluster selves! :) No self-imposed prophecies of self-destruction, doom and gloom and all that man hater or life hater stuff? If someone did you wrong, Get over it homegirl! Life is just too short! My list is short, brief and I do believe in the old adage: "You attract the kind of person to you by the type of person you become". No one makes you whole, but your incredible past, present and future efforts! Oh, women do want a guy that listens! Here?s my thought, does any guy really listens? Well, that?s why God created girlfriends, right! LOL PS I don't want to text you forever nor email forever, heck let's do coffee or drinks after we trade a few emails, I am real! "Friends First" let's get to know each other! If you are in a rush to get married, find someone else because there's a lot of playas online that'll tell you whatever you wanna hear! LOL

His interests

Book club , Camping , Coffee and conversation , Business networking , Cooking , Dining out , Gardening/Landscaping , Hobbies and crafts , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Nightclubs/Dancing , Performing arts , Playing sports , Political interests , Religion/Spiritual , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Aerobics, Baseball, Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Dancing, Football, Golf, Hockey, Other types of exercise, Running, Skiing, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, VolleyBall, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga

I exercise 3-4 times per week.




I like Birds, Cats, Dogs, Exotic Pets, Fish, Horses, Other

No Pets right now since my last dog was hit by a car years ago, still getting over it in some ways I guess, my lab was my bestfriend! :) Considering a Water Dog or Boxer next though....dogs are cool, always your friend and always happy to see you

Political views


Favorite hot spots

Driving down the coastline, I love Highway 1. Davenport, Santa Cruz, Monterey, Big Sur. San Diego has gotten my attention lately. I love Europe, i.e. Amsterdam, London, Paris and Europe. Plans to visit New Zealand soon. Hanging out in SF


California State University, East Bay, Hayward, CA

Favorite things

Right now Fitness, I love working out! 24 Fitness, ice cream at Fentons Oakland, ted talks, live music, hangng out in SF Napa, Half Moon Bay, this question is funny because I do everything! Heck, you'll have fun with me, I'm tired of writing! LOL

For fun

I like to explore. Hiking, working out, talking sports w/friends, talking politics, great conversations, hanging out in SF and Bay Area, trying out new restaurants, etc.

Last read

Travel magazines from my travel agent; sf business times, inc magazine, mashable, nytimes, sunset magazine, muscle and fitness,etc...currently reading "The Power Broker' , "The China Study" and The War of Art".

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 6'3" (190cms) 5'0" (152cms) to 6'2" (187cms)
Body type: About average Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Black No preference
Hair: Black No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way, Occasionally, Cigar aficionado, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink: Social Drinker Never, Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation: Financial / Accounting / Real Estate Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Student, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation
I'm a real estate broker, I people buy or sell properties, I love what i do even when the market was down and horrible, I stayed on my game working hard, I love being an entrepreneur, fun helping people and building a great business at the same time.
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids: No Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Wants kids: I'll tell you later Definitely, Someday, Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity: Black / African descent Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
Part of the human race then I'm a brother from Oakland, California, let's keep it 100%, Oakland is a great city, I'm not one of those folks lying about they live in SF because they don't wanna claim
Faith: Spiritual but not religious Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Hindu, Jewish, Muslim / Islam, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other
I'm cool with everybody! I am more spiritual, I cannot get with the holier than thou people, so if you are a holy roller judging people with no good deeds on your part that's not cool! LOL I give more than I take from the world respect all faiths.
Languages: English No preference
Education: Bachelors degree High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
Yeah, I got a degree, now all the stuff is free on the internet! LOL
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