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52 year old man | Carmel Valley, CA, USA | Seeking women 31-56 in San Diego, California, United States

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Have kids:
Yes, and they sometimes live at home (2)
Wants kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
5'10" (177cms)
Christian / Protestant
No Way
Social Drinker
I'm seeking the elusive combination of real...

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I'm seeking the elusive combination of real friendship and a natural chemistry. Prefer some ying and yang between us, but also common values. I have an affinity for spiritually connected women that can complement a decisive man. A friend that can fill my blind spots (cause I've got them..LOL). I want a relationship among best friends and equals..... I am easygoing, human, excellent sense of humor, adventurous, LOVE discovery, accomplished professional, believe in mind-body-spirit connection, thinker/creative, into fitness, experienced and well defined (but still open minded ). I LISTEN...and I hear, and I will think about you I'm an alpha male and now a free spirit! Maybe looking for the girl with "kaleidoscope eyes":) Enjoy skiing, the ocean, Tahoe, Hawaii, Jackson Hole. Enjoy going out AND staying in. I have two boys 13 and 9 that are with me 50% of the time..and we have FUN! I'm finished chasing women in my "I'm just waiting on a friend" (By the way...that's a line in a Rolling Stones song that every woman should listen to...just sayin) I take life as it comes now....already have many accomplishments, now I want to enjoy life, have fun, build friendships, connections...still believe in love and commitment...but friendship is the foundation. Im a scorpio...can't help it...I have hungry eyes, hungry ambition, hungry, just hungry (for you...LOL) I cannot figure out why it won't let me say I got my undergraduate degree from UCSB (and yes you should be jealous) and my graduate degree from UC Irvine (no reason to be jealous)

His interests

Coffee and conversation , Dining out , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Nightclubs/Dancing , Performing arts , Playing sports , Political interests , Religion/Spiritual , Travel/Sightseeing , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Cycling, Running, Skiing, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, VolleyBall, Weights / Machines, Yoga

I exercise 5 or more times per week.



Political views

Middle of the Road

Favorite hot spots

my luxurious patio, Mr. A's, Georges, LAKE TAHOE, hawaii, carribean, NY City, wyoming/colorado, Tibet, Cabo San Lucas, Mammoth, Mediterranean, Alaska

Favorite things

touching, affection, talking...really talking, dancing, all of my purple life, swimming,

For fun

talking with you, sharing a glass of wine with you, a fireplace and a luxurious sofa with plenty of room, skiing, dancing, theater, movies, VACATION in exotic places, just plain fun...its what we all seek. Most important to me is talking with you.

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 5'10" (177cms) 5'0" (152cms) to 5'5" (165cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned Slender, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Blue Black, Brown, Hazel
Hair: Blonde Black, Dark brown
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker
Occupation: Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness Administrative / Secretarial, Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Education / Teacher / Professor, Other profession, Architecture / Interior design
Research Scientist/Biotech ....5 years of boredom for 5 minute thrill of your life. There is NO greater thrill then knowing you are the first HUMAN to know something...
Income: $150,001+ No preference
Relationship: Divorced Never Married, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids: Yes, and they sometimes live at home (2) Yes, and they sometimes live at home, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Wants kids: No, but it's OK if my partner has kids No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian Asian, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic
I prefer to meet and be with someone outside of my culture.....learn so much more!!!! However, if you are a former athlete from any background, then im down with that!
Faith: Christian / Protestant Christian / Other
Faith is recent to me...YES women can teach men something. But is not about fire and brimstone for me...God has a real sense of humor....and he is laughing at and with us....if he is a he or a she, or an it
Languages: English No preference
Education: PhD / Post Doctoral No preference
Ph.D in biochemistry but lets get serious....its harder to build houses in the heat of the mid-day sun!. Life itself is the important degree!
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