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48 year old man | New York, NY, USA | Seeking women 36-48 within 50 miles of Bayonne, NJ


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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian
Body type:
A few extra pounds
5'11" (180cms)
Spiritual but not religious
No Way
Social Drinker
I speak Jive, stewardess.

In his own words

Let's start with the basics. I come from a large family and was lucky enough to grow up with five older sisters. If there's doubt whether you will be treated well by me, there shouldn't be. Kids, parents and animals (except for one shark) really like me. Ditto. It's easy to notice people (generally) can't talk about themselves well on here. I think that if there's one subject you should know better than anything - to be the authority on - it's you. If you can't do it, then there's clearly nothing you know well. Excuse me for saying so, but it's a waste of your time (and others) to try and find someone compatible unless you know who you are first. I've ran into some fantastic profiles on Match. 95% of those people don't live up to their words, actions or pictures. The biggest letdown they share is their expectations are through the roof versus what they have to offer. My standards aren't artificially high because of what media tells me; mine are reasonably high from having plenty to offer. I'm not seeking my future wife on here; I'm looking for a woman I like to spend time with and vice-versa. I don't skip steps and the first step is becoming friends. It's the only sustainable way towards a more serious relationship. Friends don't make "must have", "must like" or "must be" laundry lists between each other. Friends find the middle ground instead of highlighting differences. Besides, whenever you make a list of things you won't accept, you drain the available pool of people. How silly is that? It sets you up for a very lonely life. I'm a scientist, an entrepreneur/inventor and a humanist. Sometimes they fight each other, but in the end they all come together. Each has a strong voice. I've made mistakes, but they're mine. All mine. Muah ha haaa. I have a short list of pet peeves; some are unreturned emails/calls/texts, those with ulterior motives and how fellow men have become useless. Yes, I'm paying attention. I don't eat mushrooms. I carry a little extra weight. I am damn funny. I really don't care to see any more ass shots from people who shouldn't be posting ass shots (which is everyone). If that's all you have to offer, keep it moving. Let my imagination do its job, already! I do the right thing because it's the right thing. It doesn't matter if you're watching or not. It also doesn't matter if you have a large or small chest, the most awesome shoes or the latest iPhone. KIDS: I'd love to have my own, but am open to any result. You? Be you and I'll appreciate it more than anything. You're an independent woman (bonus being born or have lived overseas) who can stand by herself, laughs at past hardships and senses when to be a kid again. Together we'd make a formidable and strong team. Compassion, respect, laughter and love aren't in addition to our strength; they are vital parts of it. Yes, it makes us vulnerable - but we always look on the bright side. My parents had 62 wonderful years together... and that makes me dream big. p.s. Hug me when I least deserve one; I'll do the same. I love hugs (and besos).

His interests

Camping , Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Gardening/Landscaping , Hobbies and crafts , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Playing cards , Playing sports , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Auto racing / Motorcross, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Golf, Other types of exercise, Skiing, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, VolleyBall, Walking / Hiking

I exercise 1-2 times per week.



Political views

Some other viewpoint

Favorite hot spots

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University of Victoria, Victoria, BC

Favorite things

Soccer! Experiences... some of which include being in the rain (you can watch me from inside and laugh). I also enjoy bonfires at night, but I recently found out you can't have them anywhere you'd like (joke).

For fun

I'm the guy who loves snow, cold, rain, wind or heat (damn hot). I love storms. Prefer windows to A/C. Prefer falling into water rather than onto concrete; Bugs Bunny over Yosemite Sam; turquoise over teal. Eggs over easy. :)

Last read

Wait! I have more favorite things: being under my comforters with one foot sticking out. People who spell correctly (exceptions apply). Massages (oh yeahh). What I've read? 200-plus emails from... ?

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 5'11" (180cms) 4'0" (121cms) to 5'11" (180cms)
Body type: A few extra pounds Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes: Hazel Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair: Dark brown Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Dark blonde, Platinum
Smoke: No Way No Way, Occasionally, Cigar aficionado, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink: Social Drinker Never, Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation: Self-Employed / Entrepreneur No preference
D) All of the above
Income: $150,001+ No preference
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids: No No, Yes, and they live away from home
Wants kids: Definitely Definitely, Someday, Not sure
Ethnicity: Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian Asian, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
I'm 1/4 Hawaiian, 3/4 Canadian, 1/3 funny and 1/5 of me likes confusing people by using uncommon denominators. More than the sum of the parts, you might say.
Faith: Spiritual but not religious No preference
Without religion, you're left with reality. I live in reality. Being kind to others and doing good things isn't exclusive to people who are religious.
Languages: English Arabic, Chinese, Dutch, English, French, German, Italian, Portuguese, Russian, Spanish, Other
Education: Bachelors degree No preference
Part-everything! Biochemist (UVic), engineer, mechanic, psychologist, electrician, plumber (minus the butt crack), picture-hanger, etc. I haven't listed what I actually do for work, but it's fun and usually involves some of the above.
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