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47 year old man | New York, NY, USA | Seeking women 36-48 within 50 miles of Bayonne, NJ


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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian
Body type:
A few extra pounds
5'11" (180cms)
Spiritual but not religious
No Way
Social Drinker
Not available in stores (unless I'm in one at the time).

In his own words

I am one part of a large, super-strong and loving family; I'm the youngest of 7 kids (5 older sisters). They've taught me sharing and to respect and accept others. Looking for an action-over-words man who can't be bought? Kids and animals (except for one shark) really like me. Ditto. It's ironic, but I left the UWS for Bayonne to be closer to more of the city and other places. I'm 48 in a few days. I look older, but it's evidence I love the outdoors. I'm not some monkey in a gym; it's farm-boy strength, stamina and work ethic I'm made of. Real-world stuff. Yes, I clean up well. All of your dad's concerns will evaporate when he feels my handshake the first time... and he'll smile. How to keep my attention? - share a talent, interest or thought you're shy to admit having - turn off your filter - say no - curse or say something inappropriate (we'll watch them squirm) - press my buttons - be flippant, not flaky... and challenge me (please!). I'll add similar spice as I possess the Recommended Daily Allowance of quirks. I eat meat and have always recycled. I say "when", not "if". I size up any situation within seconds. I carry some weight to me, which comes in handy. I may not dress that well, so I'll be grateful for your suggestions. It's one of the various things you're far better at than I am. You're an independent woman who can stand by herself, but when you need me - I'm right there. My phone doesn't exist when I'm with you. You will either "get" me and love me forever... or not get me and hate me. Wow. Hate me for filling up 8 passports before my 30th birthday, not for my opinions or world view. In an ideal world, you'll touch my back or whisper in my ear and I'll stop what I'm doing. Immediately. You have plans for me. I prefer to lead by quiet example, but I ask the question nobody has the guts to, say the things (with tact) nobody wants to hear/has thought of and complete the task others avoid. I facilitate others' epiphanies. I sign my name to everything I do; anonymity reeks of cowardice. I won't be treated as an option. Really. Together we'd make a formidable and strong team. Compassion, respect, laughter and love aren't in addition to our strength; they are vital parts of it. Most of all, hug me when I least deserve one; I'll do the same. I love hugs.

His interests

Camping , Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Gardening/Landscaping , Hobbies and crafts , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Playing cards , Playing sports , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Auto racing / Motorcross, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Golf, Other types of exercise, Skiing, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, VolleyBall, Walking / Hiking

I exercise 1-2 times per week.



Political views

Some other viewpoint

Favorite hot spots

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University of Victoria, Victoria, BC

Favorite things

Soccer! Experiences... some of which include being in the rain (you can watch me from inside and laugh). I also enjoy bonfires at night, but I recently found out you can't have them anywhere you'd like (joke).

For fun

I'm the guy who loves snow, cold, rain, wind or heat (damn hot). I love storms. Prefer windows to A/C. Prefer falling into water rather than onto concrete; Bugs Bunny over Yosemite Sam; turquoise over teal. Eggs over easy. :)

Last read

Wait! I have more favorite things: being under my comforters with one foot sticking out. People who spell correctly (exceptions apply). Massages (oh yeahh). What I've read? 200-plus emails from... ?

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 5'11" (180cms) 4'0" (121cms) to 5'11" (180cms)
Body type: A few extra pounds Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes: Hazel Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair: Dark brown Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Dark blonde, Platinum
Smoke: No Way No Way, Occasionally, Cigar aficionado, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink: Social Drinker Never, Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation: Self-Employed / Entrepreneur No preference
D) All of the above
Income: $150,001+ No preference
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids: No No, Yes, and they live away from home
Wants kids: Definitely Definitely, Someday, Not sure
Ethnicity: Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian Asian, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
I'm 1/4 Hawaiian, 3/4 Canadian, 1/3 funny and 1/5 of me likes confusing people by using uncommon denominators. More than the sum of the parts, you might say.
Faith: Spiritual but not religious No preference
Without religion, you're left with reality. I live in reality. Being kind to others and doing good things isn't exclusive to people who are religious.
Languages: English Arabic, Chinese, Dutch, English, French, German, Italian, Portuguese, Russian, Spanish, Other
Education: Bachelors degree No preference
Part-everything! Biochemist (UVic), engineer, mechanic, psychologist, electrician, plumber (minus the butt crack), picture-hanger, etc. I haven't listed what I actually do for work, but it's fun and usually involves some of the above.
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