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65 year old man | Van Nuys, CA, USA | Seeking women 44-69 within 100 miles

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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Black / African descent
Body type:
Athletic and toned
5'9" (175cms)
Christian / Other
No Way
Social Drinker
Enough with the facade. If ur gonna doit, then...

In his own words

Enough with the facade. If ur gonna doit, then DO IT Holding it back is only trickin' urself. We r here because something FAILED U,, me,, them,, doesn't matter,, zero is zero.. Many people talk about "not having baggage" but so far the 1's that make this a condition seem 2 be in search of help 2 carry or empty theirs. I got baggage, had baggage & seem 2 keep finding more. Now, what's ur reason 4 being on here? Don't get me wrong, money bags don't count. I'm NOT lookin' 4 a b**tycall, fling, arrangement, affair or escort. However, if u insist on a "1st date", I prefer meeting @ a 99 cent store (of ur choice) What "I" want is a "C-r-a-z-y L-u-v" WOMAN. As I'm not incline 2 hv strong attraction 2 some1 that just uses their hips I am less attracted 2 some1 using their thumbs 2 send love affirmations while sitting across the table from me. I think every1 has had at least 1 experience with getting rear ended, broadsided or head-on collision. In my case, I was an "all over the place kinda guy" BUT, my BIG SISTA "KARMA" corrected my views. (no more auto-pilot 4 me) Things just don't happen, if we want something 2 grow we have 2 nurture it. A loving parent, guardian, friend etc. should be thought of as a catalyst rather than held responsible 4 our actions. 4 those of u who tried it once, twice or even 30 times & it didn't work, maybe it's time 2 stop hangin' @ quiky marts & shop where there's a full service selection. U don't need a green thumb 2 PLANT & NURTURE love. Next time (4 what ever reason) u feel the need 2 say "I don't give a damn" try letting ur heart hear what comes back. However, this most likely will lead 2 flooding. But, just as the rains cleanse mother earth, our tears replenish the soul. (Plants,, Need,, Water) Here's a little more about me: I still play keybrds in a smooth jazz band as well as keys 4 hire. I'm still on fixed income but our gov.allows me 2 "supplement" as long as I pay them a kick back.(aka taxes) I swim 3 times a week @ the gym because it's the only thing that helps keep my breathing under control whether I'm listening 2 the roar of the crowd @ a sporting event, listening 2 crickets or LA fireworks LOL My discipline from 1995 to date is Network Admin, IT Consultant (thanx Bill Gates 4 selling us stained glass windows) Irony:: I repair the stuff this country runs on & I'm broke,, but I'm still here. As uve probably notice by now, I hv "no" marketing skills what so ever, & is most likely the reason I can't seem 2 find a "heart light" in these murky waters. HOWEVER,,, I'm sure I'll find some1 who will allow me 2 hold her close enough that no 1 could ever take her,,, but not so tight that she could never walk away. Bare in mind, I am not a substance, u don't get 2 abuse me. If u've inferred a sense of cynicism in my profile then I've done my job BUT,, "Don't Stop Believing" is still my journey. 1 of my favorite quotes: Give a man a fish & feed him for a day; show him how 2 fish, & feed him 4 a lifetime. (orelay 4 food banks) This site shows us what we "think" we want, but God gives us "what & who" we need. 2 all in search of some1 2 help redefine themselves I say "Fair Winds & Following Seas". --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For ALL the lights that shine in the skies at night, & for the many we have not yet imagined. Let not your heart be weary in these troubled times. For these lights,, that shine,, are the numbers of MY Army,,, for healing © HaJac ™

His interests

Coffee and conversation , Business networking , Cooking , Dining out , Fishing/Hunting , Hobbies and crafts , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Nightclubs/Dancing , Performing arts , Playing cards , Playing sports , Travel/Sightseeing , Watching sports

Sports & exercise

Cycling, Other types of exercise, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines

I exercise 3-4 times per week.




I like Birds, Cats, Dogs, Exotic Pets, Fish, Horses

Political views

Middle of the Road

Favorite hot spots

Xpressmale3, where the mail reaches it's boiling point..

Favorite things

Smooth Jazz, Gospel, RB, Old School, Motown, Salsa, Reggae..... SOA, NCIS, 24, BET, SVU, Closer, Dumbest Criminals, CNN, (News, Comedy, Sports, History, Animal Planet, Explorer, Discovery, PBS Channels) Nice restaurants with an "A" rating.

For fun

My job: Network Consulting Service is what I do if u need Computer Restoration, Virus Removal, Data Recovery, Network Configuration, Firewall, Application Support, Hardware/Software Upgrades... If u need to reach me read what I "last read"....

Last read

"8" escargot on my "18th" birthday, BUT, When I was "58" I dove from a cliff "25" ft. high into very cold / murky water along with "3" other friends. After which, we all jogged "17" miles along the coastline.

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 5'9" (175cms) 4'10" (147cms) to 6'2" (187cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned No preference
Eyes: Brown Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair: Black No preference
Smoke: No Way Yes, but trying to quit
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker
Occupation: I'll tell you later No preference
Network Consulting Service is what I do if u need Computer Restoration, Virus Removal, Data Recovery, Network Configuration, Firewall, Application Support, Hardware/Software Upgrades... If u need to reach me, "read" what I "last read"...
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: No Yes, and they sometimes live at home
Wants kids: No, but it's OK if my partner has kids Not sure
Ethnicity: Black / African descent Other
Faith: Christian / Other Other
Friends::: Picks up a sword and goes in2 battle with U ,,,,,, Acquaintances::: Almost always has laundry 2 do or go shopping.. *** Not just to walk through doors that are open,, but enter the hearts that are closed,,,,,WE are ALL MASTER KEYS...
Languages: English, Spanish Other
Education: Graduate degree High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
Schools attended: CSU Dominguez Hills Long Beach City College Oxford Institute of Technology, Woodland Hills, Ca Mt. Sierra College, Pasadena, CA Associated technical College, Los Angeles, Ca
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