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46 year old man | El Cajon, CA, USA | Seeking women 35-44 within 50 miles

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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
6'1" (185cms)
Christian / Protestant
No Way
Social Drinker
Your days are numbered. Use them to throw...

In his own words

Your days are numbered. Use them to throw open the windows of your soul to the sun. If you do not, the sun will soon set, and you with it."-Marcus Aurelius, The Emperor's Handook. I love to make people laugh and smile and have fun, but also to make a difference while I am here. I am a family person and a great friend and passionate person. I love travel, learning new things and new cultures. I love to scuba dive, and I am maintaining a balance between an active lifestyle and family. I exercise at least 4 times a week, and walk Buddy whenever I can, as well as swim and I take salsa dancing lessons also among other things. I believe a balance of mind, body and spirit is important. I am looking for a family oriented person, who wants to have fun, and loves intelligent conversation , and has their own opinions about things, and who wants a strong person in their life who is successful, but who knows what is important in life, and appreciates someone who is compassionate, passionate, and thoughtful and she also should be compassionate, and want to be involved in social events, such as The Food Bank, or other charities that make a difference in people's lives (and I'd love to learn about your favorite charities and why). I could say a lot more, but part of dating is to get to know someone. A simple "blurb" cannot possibly describe a person, so I won't try. But if what you have seen and read here, interests you, love to hear from you!

His interests

Camping , Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Gardening/Landscaping , Hobbies and crafts , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Nightclubs/Dancing , Performing arts , Playing sports , Political interests , Religion/Spiritual , Shopping/Antiques , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Dancing, Golf, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, VolleyBall, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga

I exercise 3-4 times per week.


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I have Dogs

I like Horses

Love dogs, Buddy is my pal. Horses a possibility in the future; I love animals.

Political views

Middle of the Road

Favorite hot spots

My home with family and friends, Guanacaste, Costa Rica, Mt. Signal, Stonewall Peak/Julian, Lido's Cafe, all of North Park, backyard, beach, anywhere where salsa dancing is available!.Kayaking in Mission Bay, scuba diving off La Jolla


San Diego State University, San Diego, CA

Favorite things

Getting outdoors, creating landscape, art appreciation, salsa dancing, reading, scuba diving, improving myself and helping people, helping solve problems and giving, I collecting humorous T Shirts, museum and art

For fun

You name it, movies, museums, politics, exercise, walking Buddy (and Buddy walks me too!), getting outdoors, relaxing mountains and water, scuba diving, tennis, reading (well not while I am in the water lol!) board games with friends,

Last read

I read a lot, the last was The Holy Bible (while in The Holy Land, its a reference guide lol), as well as a book called "Jerusalem" which is Pres. Clinton's top 5 favorite books of all time. I enjoyed it as well. Already reading, always learning.

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 6'1" (185cms) 5'3" (160cms) to 5'11" (180cms)
Body type: About average No preference
Eyes: Hazel No preference
Hair: Dark brown No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker No preference
Occupation: Legal No preference
I do a few things, including mediation and court volunteering as well.with my law practice also in the mix and charitable ventures..
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: No No preference
Wants kids: Definitely Definitely, Someday
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian Asian, Latino / Hispanic, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
Faith: Christian / Protestant Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other
Languages: English English
Education: PhD / Post Doctoral Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
I have a Political Science Major with a minor in history and a law degree, as well as extensive hands on training in medaition.
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