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63 year old man | Riverside, CT, USA | Seeking women 43-55 within 50 miles

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Have kids:
Yes, and they sometimes live at home (3)
Wants kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
5'11" (180cms)
Buddhist / Taoist
No Way
Social Drinker
I Yam What I Yam." -- Popeye, early 20th century philosopher.

In his own words

I understand how rare and valuable it is to have a real connection with another person. If we're lucky, you'll arouse some deep primal urge in me to care about you, and you'll be able to stand being around me in the bargain. If I can stand being around me, you can too. Everyone wants a guy with a sense of humor. When you read my profile: if you laugh out loud or chuckle at least once, you'll know I have a sense of humor. My ex says I don't have a good sense of humor. I don't think that's funny. Women of the opposite sex have said to me: your ex was wrong; your ex was right; we're on the same wavelength; you're clever and funny; you're a moron; very powerful and sexy; love the caption; you're a gem; uhhhhhhhhhhh (sort of a moan, actually). I see profiles of women who emphasize that they're young at heart. I understand why, but it sounds defensive. Personally, I'm proud that I once could remember the Beatles. I think beliefs get in the way of understanding, as one is less likely to accept new info counter to beliefs. I suspect certain things to be true; but the verdict will never come in totally. One never knows when something fantastic is about to happen, so I live each day with that in mind. Except when I forget. My business will be taking me to London and the middle East with some frequency in the months to come. May want company sometimes. I like to travel, especially to other places. I like food, and eat it regularly, and would consider eating some with you if we hit it off. If I am moved to offer you a bite of something on my plate that I really really like, you will know you've got me. That's the supreme sacrifice. Pet profile peeves: Saying you're attractive. If I can't tell anyway, your saying so won't matter much. Like to laugh? Who doesn't? I don't like to be waterboarded; few do, without a safe word. Pix taken in the dark. Bad marketing on your part. Overuse of exclamation points!!!!!! Really!!!!!!! No kidding!!! I worked on Wall Street for some years, and still write articles for a website tracking the hedge fund/private equity world. Think people running gobs of money should understand the socialized costs of some of their decisions. Which isn't totally popular with that crowd. If I could remember my dreams, I would tell you what the girl of my dreams is like. I like the natural look, and think long hair is sexy. Curiosity is good. The more je ne sais quoi, the better. Some guys are made nervous by smart women. Not me. I get nervous around the ones who aren't. There's not a lot to say, and in such cases, the silence is not eloquent. With you, I'd suggest a meet, and then do a play (off-Bway), indie/foreign movie, music or food. With entertainment as with everything else, I tend toward the road less travelled. You can usually see better from there. I hunger for a woman with a degree of self-realization, interesting work, and enjoyment of same. We would have a day that is slightly unpredictable and worth sharing later. Makes it more like an ongoing narrative than,-- oh gosh, today's like yesterday -- now what? I don't see retirement/total leisure. Rather be dead. Your appearance: charming. Me: well, if I have to carry you across anything, it'll be on my back, not in my arms, unless you're hopelessly anorexic. I'm not a Greek god. Serviceable body, parts in working order. It took me awhile to realize that a roll in the hay had to be part of a relationship, and not the other way around. Perhaps you could say I'm a reformed self-centered male (check out Eric Bogosian's performance piece "Recovering Male") and would look for something to click between us before, you know, whatever. If we do get there, I can tell you that I'm gonna care a lot more about what turns you on than what turns me on. And my lips and hands will find their own ways of telling you that they love you. This profile is handmade, all-natural.

His interests

Coffee and conversation , Business networking , Dining out , Movies/Videos , Music and concerts , Performing arts , Political interests , Religion/Spiritual

Sports & exercise


I exercise 1-2 times per week.




I like Birds, Dogs, Exotic Pets

I like creatures. Not mosquitoes so much. But otherwise find all critters fascinating. Had a conure once who learned a couple of words. Sadly, he didn't learn that he shouldn't go outside until it was too late.

Political views


Favorite hot spots

Any spot can be hot if you know how to experience it.


Rice University, Houston, TX

Favorite things

Music: Fountains of Wayne, Punch Brothers, Aimee Mann, Mark Knopfler, Elvis Costello, Paul Simon. Movies: Manchurian Candidate (original) so out there at the time. Edward Scissorhands. Let the Right One In (original). La Femme Nikita.

For fun

movies, foreign preferred, music, strolling in NYC, learning how my date feels about schadenfreude. Looking into your eyes and knowlng that we both get the joke, even if we can't say what the joke is.

Last read

The Big Book of Horrible Things. New Yorker, Sports Illustrated. Rolling Stone's terrific investigative reporting. Think Progress. Works by Ogdred Weary (cognoscenti will know. They always do.), the gold standard in dry, macabre humour.

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 5'11" (180cms) 5'0" (152cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type: About average Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Brown No preference
Hair: Bald No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker
Occupation: Self-Employed / Entrepreneur Artistic / Creative / Performance, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur
int'l finance oriented towards import/export and letters of credit. And I write. Life's a story, you know. And I know that my life is just somebody else's story to everyone else.
Income: $100,001 to $150,000 $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship: Divorced Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids: Yes, and they sometimes live at home (3) Yes, and they live at home
Wants kids: No, but it's OK if my partner has kids No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, White / Caucasian
Born NYC, lived here for eight years, then lived in Mississippi for eight years (yes ma'am, ah diyid) and became less New York-centric.Then mostly back in this area. I appreciate otherness.
Faith: Buddhist / Taoist Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Hindu, Jewish, Muslim / Islam, Spiritual but not religious, Other
Maybe Juddhist? Near as I can tell, man has created God in man's own hyper-neurotic image. If deity doesn't care what you believe, and it clearly doesn't if it's there, why should I?
Languages: English English
Education: Bachelors degree Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
B A Rice University. English major. Served me well. Even today I often use complete sentences.
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