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39 year old man | Eagan, MN, USA | Seeking women 32-44 within 30 miles of Saint Paul, MN

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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
A few extra pounds
6'0" (182cms)
No Way
Social Drinker
Soon-to-be-former suburbanite relocating to...

In his own words

Soon-to-be-former suburbanite relocating to the city this summer. If you don't eschew the f-word, raunchy (yet somehow thought-provoking) jokes, double entendres, nonstop laughter, or words like "eschew," we're off to a good start. And if you're committed to or at least OK with being a child-free couple, we've just lapped the competition (I wasn't aware this was a competition, either, but just go with it). I'm creative, imaginative, and hilarious -- if I do say so myself. I can be sarcastic without being a jerk about it, I can be cynical without being a pessimist. I can be more than a little off color (end of sentence). Suffice it to say, if you often find yourself clutching your pearls and fainting onto Victorian chaise lounges, you should probably click on the next dude's profile to ogle his shirtless bathroom selfies and dead deer pics. Despite my creative and geeky/nerdy qualities, I also enjoy working with my hands. I usually have one or more DIY projects in the hopper. I've knocked out walls, tiled, plumbed, rewired, reframed, and all around revamped every room in my house. Currently I'm wrapping up one last major project and doing some minor fixes and touch-ups prior to putting the place on the market this summer. Also, after running on and off for the last 15 years, I started doing races just a few years ago. I'm (mostly) taking this season off from them to put my time and physical energy into my house, but I've done numerous 5 to 15ks here and in Chicago. I also have one half marathon under my belt and plan to do another next summer. As for you, you're smart, confident, honest, and compassionate. You're capable and embracing of spontaneity without being erratic or irresponsible (you can live in the moment while being mindful of the future). If I playfully give you some sarcastic grief, you dish it back with an evil grin. You enjoy meaningful conversation and cracking each other up so much that we spiral into uncontrollable laughter. You love nights out taking advantage of all the cultural and culinary amenities at our disposal but also appreciate our quiet nights at home making dinner together (if you don't cook, I've got you covered). You dig a beer (or cocktail of your choice) out on the patio with friends as much as camping out on the couch watching movies or a Netflix marathon. You don't have to eat tofu by the fistful, but you should be active, generally eat well, and be supportive of my efforts to do the same.

His interests

Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Gardening/Landscaping , Hobbies and crafts , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Travel/Sightseeing , Video games

Sports & exercise

Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Other types of exercise, Running, Skiing, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines

I exercise 3-4 times per week.




I have Cats

I have an older shelter cat I "inherited" from a previous relationship. She greets me at the door when I come home and is hilariously quirky.

Political views


Favorite hot spots

London, San Francisco, Chicago, New Orleans. Locally: Psycho Suzi's, Donny Dirk's, Grumpy's, Turf Club, First Ave, Origami, Happy Gnome, Sea Salt, Hoban (Korean), Smack Shack, Ward 6, and many others.

Favorite things

Spicy foods, sushi, chocolate, running, The Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, Top Gear (BBC), MPR, The Current, a cold Surly, my internet connection (especially now that I canceled my cable) and anything random, absurd, patently offensive, or ironic.

For fun

I'm almost always up for a random, spur of the moment (or well-planned) adventure in food, music, art, travel, or goofy stupidity. I also enjoy attending Twins and Wild games now and then, but I don't obsess over sports on a day-to-day basis.

Last read

Most recently: Then We Came to the End by Joshua Ferris. Really looking forward to Justin Cronin's City of Mirrors this fall. I love biographies and historical nonfiction, too. Otherwise I read up on current events and technology news voraciously.

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 6'0" (182cms) 4'10" (147cms) to 6'4" (193cms)
Body type: A few extra pounds Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Green Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair: Dark blonde Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Silver, Dark blonde, Grey, Platinum, Bald
Smoke: No Way No Way, Occasionally, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink: Social Drinker Never, Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation: Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering Administrative / Secretarial, Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Labor / Construction, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Retail / Food services, Retired, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Student, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Law enforcement / Security / Military, Fashion / Model / Beauty, Architecture / Interior design
I'm a software engineer, but in my down time, when I'm not with friends, working out, or working on a home improvement project, it's not unusual to find me engrossed in writing or some other creative activity.
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids: No No
Wants kids: No Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
I'm practically transparent! I'm primarily Norwegian with a smattering of Irish. So I can get sunburn from the glow off a toaster and would do a silly dance for you for a pint of Guinness (though I prefer something a little more on the hoppy side).
Faith: Agnostic No preference
Open but skeptical is probably the simplest description of my beliefs or lack thereof.
Languages: English English
Education: Bachelors degree Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
I have a degree in Nerdological Studies (Computer Science). And in case you were wondering, I was a HUGE dork in college! Now I'm just a regular dork. Ok, still huge.
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