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Vulpeculae

37 year old man | San Mateo, CA, USA | Seeking women 27-36 within 50 miles

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His details

Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Wants kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'2" (187cms)
Faith:
Jewish
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
... alright, let's cut to the chase... on-line...

In his own words

... alright, let's cut to the chase... on-line dating does not work. Everything about the process is counter to human evolution. Firstly, humans did not evolve to communicate on-line. All of our sensory input in geared toward reading facial expressions and tone of voice. A person gets none of that on-line or texting and is left to fill in the gaps with their imagination, for good or ill. Next, in the real world, for centuries of human existence, boy and girl got to know each other slowly, and I mean SLOWLY, often over a period of months or years before a "crush" turned into "let's go to the movies" and blossomed from there into dating and presumably more. By that point, the two people know each other, have a basic level of trust and experience with each other that friendship and good intentions are the base level of interaction. Online dating turns centuries of human courtship on its head; all of a sudden we're together for a surprise romantic encounter and all the heaped-on expectations that go with that. The only choices left the boy and girl, who are suddenly under pressure to be perfect for one effervescent encounter is one of two: 1) I want to go all the way with this person or 2) I never want to see this person again. This paper-thin romance, let's call it fast-food romance, is just about as good for your soul as the other stuff is for your waist line. Additionally, the extensive "profile" with various pictures, etc., gives one a sense of knowing the other prior to the date, and yet, it's still, really blind dating. Certainly, it's personality-blind dating and 3-dimensional blind dating. I've seen your image, but not in 3-dimensions. I've seen your smile, but I haven't seen you smile nervously across the table with the wind mussing your hair. Finally, of course, is the paradox of choice. The dating sites have gotten so good at serving us a billion options of possible compatibles, that if we ever do choose just one, we'll always think there's something better out there we haven't picked yet - in short, every date will be a disappointment because wait - there's all these other people I haven't met yet but I'm still chatting with! Nah... unplug from on-line dating! What a mess! Of course, hope springs eternal .. "hope" of course was the gift of the Olympian gods that did not escape from Pandora's box... so, if you've read all of this and understand it ... and you think you might be able to prove me wrong somehow ... do try. I'm listening.

His interests

Book club , Camping , Coffee and conversation , Business networking , Dining out , Gardening/Landscaping , Hobbies and crafts , Museums and art , Nightclubs/Dancing , Playing sports , Video games

Sports & exercise

Cycling, Dancing, Martial arts, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports


I exercise 3-4 times per week.


Sign

Leo

Pets

I have Cats

Political views

Liberal

Favorite hot spots

London, Munich, Tokyo, Italy, Venice, Tuscany.

For fun

classical guitar, kung fu, bicycle riding to name a few - did I mention writing, dancing, or anything new? Of course now I'm rhyming, I'd rather be hiking, or socializing - chilling with my cat, a trusted friend, and traveling to the world's end.

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The Sixth Extinction, HBR

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  Him What he is looking for
Appearance
Height: 6'2" (187cms) 5'0" (152cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned, Full-figured
Eyes: Hazel No preference
Hair: Dark brown No preference
Lifestyle
Smoke: No Way No Way, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink: Social Drinker Never, Social Drinker
Occupation: Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness No preference
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Never Married Never Married
Have kids: No No
Wants kids: Definitely Definitely, Someday
Background
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian Asian, Middle Eastern, Native American, White / Caucasian, Other
Faith: Jewish Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Hindu, Jewish, Muslim / Islam, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other
Languages: English, German, Hebrew, Italian, Japanese, Korean, Spanish No preference
Education: Graduate degree Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
Completed my MBA. Currently marketing in biotech.
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