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53 year old man | Westfield, NJ, USA | Seeking women 40-59 within 800 miles

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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
Not sure
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
5'6" (167cms)
Spiritual but not religious
No Way
Social Drinker
ISO wit, charm, intelligence and passion...with bright eyes

In his own words

Not tall, and probably about 30% less attractive than I was 10 years ago. Otherwise, an earnest, always learning, worldly professional, with passion for traveling, fine restaurants, wine, movies, animals [especially dogs] and new knowledge; Seeking a comely, curious, stylish woman with a good laugh. Always try to be chivalrous and a gentleman. I believe in kindness; the best tools; keeping family and friends laughing and thriving; stimulating work; integrity; leather bound books; holding hands in your 60s, making love in your 70s; companionship; over tipping; and, that the most important thing in life is the person with whom you choose to share it. Love browsing bookstores and antique shops, savoring local cuisines, exploring museums, going to small clubs and bistros, experiencing whatever makes a particular place unique. Always on the lookout for the perfect Grand Marnier Souffle. My friends would describe me as optimistic, curious, imaginative, empathetic and kind...with the resilience of a cartoon character, a sexy voice, and a compelling appreciation of excellence in all areas. As an MD that specializes in Preventive Medicine and Nutrition. I spend much of my time setting up programs for companies that actually care about the health of their employees; writing articles and flying all over the country for speaking engagements. It is both fulfilling and frustrating; misconceptions about nutrition abound. (Here's a tip: only animals contain cholesterol, never plants. All pickles were always non-cholesterol, if your potato chips have cholesterol, they were fried in beef tallow.) Also, there is no such thing as "white chocolate"; it's not just a misnomer, to refer to the glob of milk fats, coca butter and sugar the US christened as "white chocolate," in Switzerland would be a criminal offense. Every once in a while, I get to give a talk or seminar on chocolate or hypnosis-much more fun, fascinating and entertaining than cardiac risk factors or secondhand smoke. I have always loved being a team with a woman, and I miss having someone special in my life, for whom I can go all out planning special things. Wholeheartedly agree with Adam in Mark Twain’s "Diary of Adam and Eve," when he said "I'd rather be out of the garden with her, than in the garden without her." As for religion, I believe in kindness, empathy and compassion. Lookng for an optimistic, creative woman with inexhaustible curiosity, good posture and a mischievous glint in her eye. Someone who loves to travel, has an easy genuine laugh, and likes to laugh a lot. Who appreciates fine dining, movies with a plot, lifelong learning, lush towels, feather pillows, intelligent dogs, wit and banter. She prefers lingering meals, with much conversation, and new wines to try. Searching for winsome elegance with smarts. Would like to find soulmate chemistry but as the following anecdote shows, it’s rare: An Interviewer asks a 50-year-old man: “How come you never married?” He answers: “I was waiting for the perfect woman.” Interviewer: “You mean with all the women you’ve dated, you never came across one that was perfect for you? He: “Well yes, I have...several.” Interviewer: “And!...What happened?” He: “Nothing...They were waiting for the perfect man.

His interests

Book club , Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Gardening/Landscaping , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Nightclubs/Dancing , Performing arts , Playing cards , Shopping/Antiques , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Baseball, Basketball, Dancing, Football, Skiing, Soccer, Tennis / Racquet sports, VolleyBall, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines

I exercise 3-4 times per week.


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I have Dogs

I like Cats, Fish, Horses

Political views

Very Liberal

Favorite hot spots

Sushi Places and Piano Lounges. FLA: Cafe Chardonnay wine tastings, Cafe L'Europe, Chez Jean-Pierre. CARIBBEAN: Atlantis; St Barts. NY: Cafe Carlyle, Algonquin Oak Room, Nobu, Chanterelle. VEGAS: Bellagio, Drais, Pamplemousse, Venetian


Georgetown University, Washington, DC

Favorite things

Jane Austen, Vonnegut, Anais Nin. TV: Game of Thrones, BONES, CASTLE, Big Bang, Seinfeld, Buffy-Angel, BBC, X-Files Columbo Films: Two for the Road, Hitchcock, Woody Allen, Love Actually, Phil.Story, B&W 1930s, Thin Man, Arthur, Stuntman, Secretary

For fun

animal rescue, poker tournaments, outdoor activities, wine tasting, beaches and cafes, bookstores, live music in small venues, travel / investigate new cities

Last read

Love Among the Ruins Script; Joss Whedon's Biography; Championship Hold 'Em; Sunday NY Times, MacWorld; Medical Journals

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 5'6" (167cms) 4'5" (134cms) to 5'8" (172cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned Slender, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Brown No preference
Hair: Black No preference
Smoke: No Way No preference
Drink: Social Drinker No preference
Occupation: Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness No preference
MD, Specialize in Preventive Medicine Nutrition. Private Practice; Setup Corporate Programs; Seminars on topics like Hypnosis, Chocolate, Cholesterol, Stress, Weight Loss. Write Health Articles and consultant to medical thriller novelists
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Never Married No preference
Have kids: No No preference
Wants kids: Not sure No preference
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian No preference
100% Italian-American- Half Sicily, Half I can make savory Pizza from scratch, grow an impeccable fig, and any large family gathering has at least 2 tables that look like they came from the set of the Sopranos. Older brother to 4 sisters
Faith: Spiritual but not religious No preference
Raised Catholic. 16 years of Catholic School! Believe in kindness, empathy and compassion
Languages: English, French, Italian, Tagalog English
Education: PhD / Post Doctoral Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
Education ongoing BS in Psych: Georgetown; MD: Albert Einstein in NY; Residency Yale. Medical Hypnosis at Columbia. Lately:Chocolate, Wine, Cooking ; Writing Courses
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