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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
5'2" (157cms)
Christian / Other
No Way
Social Drinker
Mom always said, " Don't Worry About Finding The Right Man, Focus on Becoming the Right Woman

In her own words

I love a romantic comedy. Afterall, what girl doesn't want to be swept off her feet by a charming and handsome hero she can call her own? some point during almost every romantic comedy, the female lead suddenly trips and falls, stumbling helplessly over something ridiculous like a leaf, and then some Matthew McConaughey type either whips around the corner just in the nick of time to save her or is clumsily pulled down along with her. That event predictably leads to the magical moment of their first kiss. Please. I fall ALL the time. You know who comes and gets me? The bouncer. That being said, I was recently asked if marriage was something I was avoiding. My response was that I don't have a problem with marriage itself. In fact, I'd love to get married and have a baby or two, depending on how expensive they are. I just don't want to get divorced. A divorce is painful and bad and there's a lot of paperwork required, and I have a huge aversion to paperwork. If you are smiling at this point then there's a good chance you have a sense of humor which increases our chances of not only getting along, but getting each other. I can laugh at myself and really do believe that laughter is medicine for the soul. A little about me: I'm driven and know what I want out of this life. I have little interest in drama and seek to constantly improve and grow from life's lessons and all that they are teaching me. No one is immune to troubles or pain so I try not to judge or compare myself to others. I will seek out the good in others and believe in second, third, even seventy times seven chances. In my world, mercy rules. Simply put, LOVE is my religion. I seek to surround myself with positive, loving, uplifting and respectful people and cherish my friends and family. I am kind of old fashioned when it comes to dating and consider myself polite and poised and expect to be treated like a lady. I do appreciate it when a man opens doors for me, is the first to call after a date and in the beginning even initiates advancing the relationship to the something more than "just dating" I think it does take a truly unique and strong man to balance me; a strong quiet confidence type who is graceful, patient, not quick to anger and has a genuine sweet core. I want someone who I can feel vulnerable with and cherished by and who allows my light to show by shining his. Someone who believes in and has his own personal journey with God that I get to be a part of. Someone who I can be transparent before, exposing all my truths to, knowing that in his eyes is me. At the same time, I want to be a support system to a partner who possesses an intuitive and spiritual wisdom to understand who he is with me and who we are together. It's the way I roll my eyes at him and give him that look like "I don't know why I love you but I do" when he's reading the morning newspaper and makes a political comment that I strongly disagree with. It's how excited I get when I see his number show up on a text in the middle of the afternoon just to say "hi". It's the way he looks at me while wearing his oversized T-Shirt to bed, which I affectionately refer to as my lucky shirt and refuse to go out of town without packing it. It's a kiss, it's a soft touch, it's a good cry and a long walk holding hands and rocking out the rest of our lives, going grey and holding hands on a front porch together. It's about living a healthy lifestyle because you know it helps us to live a better life. We stick by each others side and have each others backs. And rainbows will flood our hearts and music will flood our minds, like a new Universe achieving soft unity. Pleasure paradise to find.

Her interests

Alumni connections , Camping , Coffee and conversation , Business networking , Cooking , Dining out , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Nightclubs/Dancing , Performing arts , Playing sports , Political interests , Religion/Spiritual , Shopping/Antiques , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Basketball, Cycling, Dancing, Inline skating, Martial arts, Running, Skiing, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga

I exercise 5 or more times per week.




I have Cats, Dogs

Political views

Middle of the Road

Favorite hot spots

Malibu and Zuma Beach, Townsquare or The District in Vegas, any mountain top, sandy beach or private backyard with a view are some of my favorite places to spend my time--especially with someone AMAZING.

Favorite things

Live music, dining out and trying new restaurants, farmers market on a Sunday, watching Sunday night cartoons on FOX. Working out, kickboxing, going to UFC and amateur MMA fights, taking long rides on the back of a manly man's Harley down PCH.

For fun

Spending time with the most interesting man in the world who makes my heart race from the simple act of holding hands. With the right person, every activity is well spent and a good time--even trips to the dentist are fun with someone special.

Last read

I've read the Bible. I've read Dylan. I'm reading People now. It's much more chilling.

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'2" (157cms) 5'9" (175cms) to 6'1" (185cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Blue No preference
Hair: Blonde No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way, Cigar aficionado
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation: Self-Employed / Entrepreneur No preference
I am the founder of a digital media company that owns and produces exclusive online content for a network of music based websites. I love my job.
Income: $75,001 to $100,000 $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: No Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Wants kids: Someday Definitely, Someday
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian No preference
Half lucky four leaf clover and half spicy jalapeno. In other words, my mom's family is off the boat Irish and my father's people swam over here from Spain.
Faith: Christian / Other Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other
Languages: English English
Education: Associates degree High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree
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