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61 year old man | Oak Park, IL, USA | Seeking women 48-62 within 50 miles


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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
Probably not
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
5'11" (180cms)
Spiritual but not religious
No Way
Social Drinker
Is it just me or does this internet dating...

In his own words

Is it just me or does this internet dating thing seem a bit like shopping? This part, however, more like marketing. Alrighty then, here's my pitch: 1) I will match any other offers, 2) I provide free shipping if you are within 50 miles of Oak Park, and 3) most important, you can return me for any reason, no questions asked. Oh,,, and for one woman I can offer an Unlimited Unconditional Lifetime Guarantee (the UULG) for love and friendship. I am curious, and particularly interested in Politics, Psychology, History, Spirituality, and Holistic Medicine. I love understanding. Discovering a good TED video often leads to hours of Googling related topics. I run, bike, and keep in good shape. I like to hike and any activity that brings me into nature. I love lightning, thunder, high winds, huge waves, driving rain, blizzard snow storms, the stiff cold of Winter, as well as amiable Spring drizzles, breezy Summer days, and my favorite; the rustling, romantic Fall. What better soul food? I am philosophical, and idealistic, and practical. I can build and fix things. I like the challenge of keeping stuff working (plus I am bothered by wastefulness). On that note ladies let me say, If a man says he's going to fix something, HE WILL. There's no need to remind him every 6 months about it! : ) I try to be honest, by becoming more self-aware, and by saying what is true for me. Trust is on my short list of what is important in a relationship. Openness and honesty are the beginning of intimacy, and being accepted "as is" fosters both ease and courage. I am familiar with my shortcomings. You'll not have to convince me that I am not perfect. I don't desire you to be perfect either. I have invested much in my own personal growth. I think that communicating openly with each other about annoyances and hurt feelings keeps us clear to appreciate in each other what is good and beautiful. One of my current favorite sayings: "In the end, only three things matter: How much you loved, How gently you lived, and How gracefully you let go of things not meant for you." I believe humor is essential for happiness in this world. Sharing a similar sense of humor makes everything better. When love is present, life is full of irony, comedy, absurdity, wit, laughter, cheer, and delight. Without these, the pain all around would dominate me. I just saw something on the Internet which I did not know. I only mention it to be helpful: Men who are bald in the front of their heads are GREAT THINKERS. In contrast, men who are bald on the back of their heads are GREAT LOVERS. You're maybe wondering, "But what does it mean if they're totally bald?" Well, those men... They THINK they are GREAT LOVERS! Me? My hair is getting thinner, BUT ONLY IN THE BACK! But I digress, I'm looking for a woman who is wired to live fully. She is open and honest. She is aware of, and expresses other feelings besides just "happy" (e.g. sad, angry, tender, excited, scared). I am attracted to a spontaneous and creative woman, secure enough to be vulnerable and trusting. She welcomes being held and supported. She is young at heart. Despite disappointments and hurts, she has gratitude, hope, imagination, tenderness, excitement, and glee. Kindness can not be overrated, and finding a consuming passionate love is the Grand Prize! "Happiness is not a state to arrive at, but a manner of traveling." M.L. Runbeck Is there any better way to travel than to be a lover with a lover? Thanks for the look. I wish you all success in finding your heart's desire, Roger Btw, Can I just ask, "When the cashier said "Strip down, facing me" How was I to know she meant my debit card?

His interests

Camping , Coffee and conversation , Dining out , Gardening/Landscaping , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Playing sports , Religion/Spiritual , Volunteering , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Cycling, Running, Skiing, Walking / Hiking

I exercise 5 or more times per week.


I have Cats

2 hilarious Abyssinian cats: Sailor and Jib. They scamper to meet me at the door, race to where I'm going ahead of me, and love splashing under a faucet. I know they think they are dogs. I am awaken many mornings by a cotton paw on my nose.

Political views

Some other viewpoint

Favorite hot spots

I like relaxed settings where conversations and friendship flourish. Out of the way local ethnic restaurants are often great. I love hearing music at small venues like The City Winery, Thalia Hall, and Space.


Miami University, Oxford, OH

Favorite things

Live music. Favs: Bonnie Raitt, Bruce Hornsby, Dave Matthews, John Hiatt, Clapton, Eva Cassidy, Joan Armitrading, Santana, Alison Krauss, Crosby, Stills, JT, Dylan, The Boss, Virgil Fox, Zeppelin, U2, Nate Reuss, Terence Blanchard, and Paul Kelly

For fun

I like long bike rides. I love movies, and don't miss many that are well reviewed (even many that would certainly be considered "chick flicks"). Hanging out with friends and family is the best. Helping out on projects is a great way to be together.

Last read

The Four Agreements, and The Fifth Agreement by D. M. Ruiz, People of the Lie by Scott Peck, Grain Brain, and Brain Maker by David Perlmutter, All the Light We Cannot See by A Doerr, The End of Illness by David Agus, The Cambridge Companion to Jung.

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 5'11" (180cms) 3'0" (91cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Brown Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair: Light brown Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Dark blonde
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Never, Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation: Self-Employed / Entrepreneur No preference
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: No Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Wants kids: Probably not No preference
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
I am particularly attracted to cultures (and women) that are warm and demonstrative. I grew up in a reserved family with an abundance of German and Scottish genes expressing themselves (BY BEING UNEXPRESSIVE!).
Faith: Spiritual but not religious No preference
Faith (trust) is an attitude towards life. Anne Lamott had a great observation. She said, "I believe when you are telling the truth, you are close to God." My favorite Bible quote: "God is love." I don't see the benefit in making it complicated.
Languages: English English
Education: Graduate degree No preference
I think academic degrees are less significant than being curious, paying close attention, and learning what is important in life. In past schooling, and my everyday thoughts, human beings are the subject I find most interesting.
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