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58 year old man | San Jose, CA, USA | Seeking women 45-56 within 15 miles


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Have kids:
Yes, and they live away from home (3)
Wants kids:
Probably not
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
6'0" (182cms)
Christian / Protestant
No Way
Social Drinker
Work hard, play hard, be there for the ones who love you ...

In his own words

I guess I’m a bit “old school,” but I still believe a man should be a leader, chivalrous, respectful, courteous and a protector. Having said that, I am attracted to independent, strong women who don’t need me to “complete” them. It’s more of a case of complementing each other. Like the line in the movie – “you make me want to be a better man.” The woman who can inspire and appreciate that thought – she’s the one for me. I love looking forward to the weekend when we can come together on a Friday night for a cocktail, a steak on the grill, and make plans for adventures together. This could involve sun and fun, being on the go, taking a drive, going hiking or cycling. Or it could be a trip to the Legion of Honor for an impressionist art exhibition following by dinner in the city. I love it all. I like to be active but also deeply appreciate the therapeutic benefit of a great bottle of wine (or 2!), and settling in for the evening with a wonderful movie (and you of course). On the other hand, sometimes going and dancing is really what the doctor ordered. I’m young of heart, body and spirit. I have a great sense of humor. I’m playful, but I have broad shoulders for you to lay your head on when you need to be comforted. I’m kind of soft spoken, but when I talk, people listen to me. I’m well educated, kind of a Renaissance man. I subscribe to just about every travel magazine on the planet, and I’m constantly thinking about the next trip. But to be honest, I’d rather save my frequent flier miles for us. I’m told I’m a great kisser – it’s one of my many talents. What the other ones are, well, you’ll have to find out for yourself. I have a busy life with family, friends, career and my activity with Team in Training, but I will always make you a priority and find time for us. I’m a good listener, sensitive and empathetic. You might think this conflicts with being a manly man, but I don’t. My vulnerability is balanced with my strength. I’m a daddy to 3 children, and they are my world. They’re in their 20’s and out having adventures. I’m so proud of them. I’m very close to my dog and cat too, so I hope you’re not the jealous type. I’m looking for a gal that will make my heart skip a beat whenever I’m with her – on a Friday night for cocktails at home after a long week; when she’s dolled up and ready to go dancing; or maybe when we’re in jeans going to the opera. My favorite movie is "It's a Wonderful Life.” It's about the greatness of family and friends; how even the best people lose hope sometimes but believe in the potential of life to really be really, well, wonderful. My kids and I watch it every Christmas Eve, it’s a tradition. I try not to let them see me cry. I’m a sucker for poetry, especially Pablo Neruda. Have you ever noticed that when you’re in a great mood, and everything seems to be going your way, that every song you hear on the radio makes you want to turn it up loud? I’m looking for that special lady who makes me want to turn my life up loud. Two things to leave you with – a horoscope and a poem. First the horoscope: "In the coming years, beginning now, new gifts, talents, abilities and achievements begin to appear, slowly at first, then pouring in like a summer rainfall. You discover yourself and feel freedom for the first time, seek freedom for others because now you understand what it was like not be free -- from emotional obstacles, beliefs, thought-forms you thought were real. All that is old disappears. You stand "revealed." (Will it be you standing next to me?) Now the poem: Lovely one, your eyes are too big for your face, your eyes are too big for the earth. There are countries, there are rivers, in your eyes, my country is your eyes, I walk through them, they light the world through which I walk, lovely one.

His interests

Book club , Camping , Coffee and conversation , Business networking , Cooking , Dining out , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Nightclubs/Dancing , Performing arts , Playing sports , Religion/Spiritual , Shopping/Antiques , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Aerobics, Baseball, Bowling, Cycling, Dancing, Football, Hockey, Other types of exercise, Running, Skiing, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, VolleyBall, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines

I exercise 5 or more times per week.




I have Cats, Dogs

The sweetest Rottweiler on the planet.

Political views

Middle of the Road

Favorite hot spots

The coast, Hawaii, Mexico, any place with sun, sand and surf :-)


California State University, Long Beach, Long Beach, CA

Favorite things

Great food; sunshine, music. Wine tasting. Adventures. My dog, a good book. Farmers markets. Art & Wine festivals. Movies, movies, movies. Live theater. The Symphony. The Opera.

For fun

Love to cycle, hike, anything that gets me outdoors and in nature. Love bookstores, coffee shops, movies, the arts, music, farmer's markets, cooking (with an accomplice), wine tasting, exploring, road trips, travelling pretty much anywhere!

Last read

Gulp by Mary Roach; she's a riot!

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 6'0" (182cms) 5'2" (157cms) to 5'11" (180cms)
Body type: About average Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Blue No preference
Hair: Light brown No preference
Smoke: No Way Occasionally
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker, Regularly
Occupation: Executive / Management No preference
I am a cloud computing architect. It's very cool stuff. I'll explain if you buy the coffee.
Income: $150,001+ No preference
Relationship: Divorced No preference
Have kids: Yes, and they live away from home (3) No preference
Wants kids: Probably not Probably not, No
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian No preference
My dad's family is Hassidic Jewish. My mom's was WASP. Go figure. My dog is a pedestrian. I'm a moderate.
Faith: Christian / Protestant No preference
Languages: English, Spanish English
Education: Graduate degree No preference
I did my undergraduate studies at University of Southern California and Long Beach State (Journalism). I got an MBA from Santa Clara University in 1985. I was active in Phi Kappa Tau fraternity, also a Delta Zeta big brother.
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