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37 year old man | Philadelphia, PA, USA | Seeking women 30-35 in Bangor, Maine, United States

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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
6'0" (182cms)
Spiritual but not religious
No Way
Social Drinker
After living in MD/DC and Philly for over five...

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After living in MD/DC and Philly for over five years, I took a job here at the university. Moving from Philly later this summer. Apart from these events… Originally from WI and Philly, I moved to the SF Bay area for my 20s—mostly studying psychology—as well as visiting family in Europe, moonlighting in HI as a whale/dolphin researcher, and training for Taekwondo championships. There was a few-year relationship in there as well.... I spent the last 5-y years in MD/DC, for my PhD (I finish this spring). Life has become a little bit more mundane, and I try to shake things up when I can… hence, the move ME. With warm weather, I like to spend more time outside: biking, running, and visiting outdoor markets. Also, hiking/exploring, cooking, improving my Spanish or Italian conversational skills, learning Argentinian Tango, or learning acoustic guitar are long-term interests. I also enjoy lazy days: spending time drinking coffee and repotting my houseplants, cooking Italian sauces, watching documentaries on Netflix. It's more fun to go out and explore when there's someone to share in the adventure… AS FOR YOU... I will be most attracted to you if you share some of the following qualities: you tend to be easy-going, affectionate, emotionally expressive, intellectually curious, physically active, and progressively-minded. A secure sense of self and trust in close relationships is important... and silliness to the point of crying is an added bonus!

His interests

Book club , Camping , Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Nightclubs/Dancing , Playing cards , Playing sports , Political interests , Shopping/Antiques , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Dancing, Golf, Martial arts, Running, Skiing, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, VolleyBall, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga

I exercise 3-4 times per week.


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I like Cats, Dogs, Horses

I grew-up with large or giant breed dogs over the years (e.g., Samoyed, Irish Wolfhound, German Shepherd, Anatolian Shepherd). I hope to have a medium size dog some day -- as in 50lbs or under. I like cats if they're chill, like Maine Coon cats.

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Favorite hot spots

New to the area… otherwise, Center City Philadelphia, Santa Cruz, CA; San Francisco; NYC; Kealakekua Bay, HI; Rome...


University of California, Santa Cruz, Santa Cruz, CA

Favorite things

Music: Tame Impala, Caribou, other rock or electronic PBS Frontline; Arrested Dev; NPR; Indie & Foreign& Comedy movies Friends & family; ppl watching, yoga strength poses; psychology; brunch; Martial Arts; Streaming Netflix; Whale & dolphin resea

For fun

Dinner and drinks, tea or coffee in cafes, play pool in dive bars, chill with friends, bike rides, happy hours, stream movies on my laptop, wander thru city streets, museums, yoga, teaching martial arts, running, gym.

Last read

Tons of articles about psychological well-being; NYTimes Magazine article on crazy actor from old show "Dallas"; David Sedaris; Bonobo Handshake; Silver Spoon (for cooking)

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 6'0" (182cms) 5'1" (154cms) to 5'11" (180cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Brown Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair: Dark brown Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Dark blonde
Smoke: No Way No Way, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation: Education / Teacher / Professor No preference
I work with university students and also do research college student well-being.
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Never Married Never Married
Have kids: No No
Wants kids: Someday Definitely, Someday
Ethnicity: Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, White / Caucasian No preference
Italian/German/Welsh/Costa-Rican… the rest I know only from my ancestry-DNA testing my parents did.
Faith: Spiritual but not religious Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Spiritual but not religious
Agnostic humanist... I respect all religions, but I consider myself to be secular.
Languages: English English, Italian, Spanish
Education: PhD / Post Doctoral Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
Ph.D. Candidate – so I've finished coursework and passed my comprehensive exams... now working on the D-Word
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