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41 year old man | Duarte, CA, USA | Seeking women 28-45 within 30 miles


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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
Not sure
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
5'10" (177cms)
Christian / Catholic
No Way
Social Drinker
I'm a good guy but am by no means perfect. I...

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I'm a good guy but am by no means perfect. I wish I could have the knowledge and experience that I have now combined with the innocence and purity that I had as a teenager. Or at least I'd like to keep that guy (me as an idealist) somewhere in my rear view mirror. Random facts/details about me: * I've been told that I am smarter than I look. I’ve been led to believe the term "smart" in this case is interchangeable with the word "deep." And I feel that makes it marginally less insulting. I think? * I smile more than you would expect based on the pics I have posted. * My intuition is one of my best assets - especially when it comes to sniffing out bad people and bad intentions. My very own "Spidey sense" if you will? * I will be an excellent ally to have after the impending zombie apocalypse begins. Details and references available upon request. * I donate blood (faithfully) to the Red Cross every 56 days. * I have very little patience for selfish people and those who habitually make other people’s lives worse - especially if it’s from a lack of empathy. * I have been on the Family Feud and even went 2nd in the bonus round to clinch the $ win. But, split 5 ways, the big money wasn't so big. * I think life would be infinitely better if piñatas suddenly appeared throughout the day. * I follow the golden rule but I make exceptions for those who ASK to be treated differently with their actions. * I believe mutual respect is one of the biggest elements in any successful relationship. * My mom is the sweetest person on Earth so everyone else is fighting for 2nd place (if they are fighting at all). * I went from K thru 8th grade without missing a single day of school. * I'm the youngest of 3 (but NOT spoiled) and I have an amazing set of parents that are still very happily married. * I once walked over and threatened to physically “escort” a crazy old man from church because he was cursing toward and waiving his cane at a crying infant. He (amazingly) was well behaved from that point on. And he even said “I was good” to me as he shuffled past while carrying (and not using) his cane on his way out of church. Ok, so I used to think that it was a good strategy to have a profile (on here) that would appeal to as wide an audience as possible. More is better, right? Yeah, not so much. Anyway, over time, I have come to realize that "most people" are soo not a match for me that I need to do a lil more "weeding" than the all inclusive approach. Por ejemplo: If you only have 1 photo posted - you're already on thin ice. The odds of it not looking like (or even being) you seem to be a lil too high at that stage. Also, I am a free thinker and tend to have more respect for those who make decisions as they are faced with them. People who live their lives by following a series of pre-set rules (as opposed to making decisions on a case by case basis) will also have an uphill battle in trying to get on my good side. If you don't trust your own judgment, why should I? Or anyone else for that matter? If I were to survey 10 random people that know you (including exes, co-workers, etc.) - I would hope that 7 or more would have mostly good things to say about you. Now mix your (favorable) score with a dash of that ever-elusive "chemistry" . . . and we just may be on to something. P.S. If you want to be treated "like a princess," only eat sushi, expect your man to line dance, or have a profile that is one cliché after another - we (most likely) are not a match. But I have been wrong before, so who knows? P.P.S. If the fact that my vehicle is often full of things like tools, engine parts, and snowboard gear might bother you, I'm probably not your guy.

His interests

Dining out , Movies/Videos , Music and concerts , Playing cards , Playing sports , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Watching sports

Sports & exercise

Auto racing / Motorcross, Basketball, Bowling, Cycling, Football, Other types of exercise, Skiing, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines

I exercise 3-4 times per week.



Political views

Middle of the Road

Favorite hot spots

I'd rather do . . . Claim Jumper than Starbucks. Fresh water than salt water. Magic Mountain than Disneyland. A comedy club than a night club. Late night than early AM. Your place than mine (haha just seeing if you're paying attention).


University of California, Santa Barbara, Santa Barbara, CA

Favorite things

Mtn biking at Aliso/Wood Canyons, Lake Powell, Baja Fresh, my iPod, Breaking Bad, guacamole, Enya to Social Distortion (but more of Social D for sure!), The Walking Dead, al pastor, and wakeboarding til my forearms are so shot I can barely drive home

For fun

My new favorite thing is mtn biking. I love snowboarding & wakeboarding too. & traveling is always a priority. I'm also a bit of a people watcher. Not in a creepy sorta way though. But who actually KNOWS that they're being creepy?? hmmm

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 5'10" (177cms) 5'0" (152cms) to 5'10" (177cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Blue No preference
Hair: Dark brown No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink: Social Drinker No preference
Occupation: Self-Employed / Entrepreneur No preference
I'm self-employed. I own my own small business in the "service and repair" industry. A hobby sorta snowballed I suppose.
Income: $50,001 to $75,000 No preference
Relationship: Never Married No preference
Have kids: No No preference
Wants kids: Not sure No preference
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, White / Caucasian
I'm half Italian and half Irish. And since women seem to be as into appearance as men are (who knew?) - I'm a true 5'10 (ie: not 5'7 & 3/4).
Faith: Christian / Catholic No preference
Languages: English No preference
Education: Bachelors degree No preference
a BA in cultural anthropology from UCSB. And you're not supposed to be laughing now . . .
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