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42 year old man | Chicago, IL, USA | Seeking women 34-43 within 20 miles

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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
5'11" (180cms)
Christian / Catholic
No Way
Social Drinker
'Shame on you for getting older every day'-first regret/three years older, Steven Wilson ;)

In his own words

Hi and welcome to the little ditty portion of me on match. I wish I could have friends put some backing about who I am on here... then it would be 'linkedin' (TM)! I am at a stage in my life where I am really grounded, financially very stable and happy. A lot of friends in my life have chatted with me over the past few years on how they feel like they have found out who they are. I am lucky as I have felt like that since mid-college and it has enabled me to really focus and keep my eye on the prize in what I have set as goals for myself. I find humor in the strangest things -(if you are from Canada, 'I find humour in the srangest things)like Canadians for instance. I have had some great relationships over the years and would love to find that person who can inspire me every morning when I get up: someone to cook for (I am a chef and a humbly damn good one), share crazy stories with, to make you laugh, to dance slow with, see concerts with and all and everything in-between. This isn't asking too much! Like I said, I am a chef- here is a secret that myself and a lot of other chef friends don't share too much: We are human. We feed people. We are inspired by all things in life and put that art forth on a plate for nice people like you. The word foodie? I like that word as much as some of you like "moist". I hope I never meet a moist foodie. Or do I? Foodie translates into "I have google and epicurius on my smart phone" to me. If you can name what bottarga, glacage royale and the 2nd herb in bernaise is? Ok, you can put a foodie moniker before your name. It kind of deflates the years of work and effort to get good at your craft to turn it into a fanny pack adjective for you to wear. I'm very passionate about what I do, but not a about it. Ego and extremism always make food salty in a kitchen. I take pride and put a lot of love and sincerity in what I do, but then you'll see me over with the Chinese and Mexican cooks telling funny stories and teaching English words to them! I am looking for a well-grounded, funny woman who brightens up the room (even if accidentally) on her worst of days. Someone real and magic (who may not even know it!).Kids are cool (I am the 7th of 8 kids and we are a very good group of friends....all of us- from the priest to the gay writer, we are pretty cool)no kids is ok too. Faith? I'll go to church because I have doubts. Church to me is a rock by a lake, the b'hai temple in Evanston or any great architectural place-including a real church- a great meal made by or with a chef bud or with someone I care about. Even Mother Theresa had doubts-it's healthier than writing it all off (there is too much cool stuff to do that. .. seriously? )or believing blindly like a sheep. I am a dude, so that has entailed being grossly misunderstood, pegged as something I'm not (like being called a foodie), BUT, I make up for it with a very large, sincere heart of gold to just 'being'. I'm definitely a giving person and am shocked to this day by how many incredible women I've met who have been hurt and borderline broken (changed?)by someone who should have known better. I'm a good guy, with a broad spectrum, a funny point of view, and tact. Don't look for a mold. I broke mine. I'm also hoping to realize the right person-I'd never ask to change someone, and it's a big turnoff over the years to see friends on both sides of the fence vent to me about someone they really like wanting to 'change' them. I'm not going to play that game; I've seen the results! Music? My list is always changing: King Crimson-this band is my elvis! Jason Becker Stevie Wonder dj earwig Nat King Cole Rival Sons Michael Hedges Jason Falkner The list changes daily and even weekly! Good luck on your search and enjoy the journey to finding someone

His interests

Coffee and conversation , Business networking , Cooking , Dining out , Fishing/Hunting , Gardening/Landscaping , Hobbies and crafts , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Playing sports , Religion/Spiritual , Shopping/Antiques , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Baseball, Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Dancing, Football, Golf, Other types of exercise, Running, Skiing, Soccer, Swimming, VolleyBall, Walking / Hiking, Yoga

I exercise 3-4 times per week.


I don't believe in astrology


I have Cats

1 cat. That's that.

Political views

Middle of the Road

Favorite hot spots

I like to just get in a car and GO! New Glarus WI. NYC. Catalan Region of Spain is Heaven. Fishing in MI with my brothers/ Keys in FL. Portland OR is cool! Here- Park East, Wreckless Records, Aviary, Any Korean Food, and anywhere we can be together.


Marquette University, Milwaukee, WI

Favorite things

Groups that are allowed to develop their own ideas- Porcupine Tree- Steven Wilson, old cookbooks, a coffee shop I have never been to. Music stores- China Town, little Korea, Other Friends' restaurants- The lake, concerts! Waterskiiing!

For fun

I am a collector of books and tunes-cd's records,etc. I play drums and music is the air I breathe. As a chef, I love dining out. Louis CK/Chapelle/these people are as much prophets and philosophers as they are comedians. I am reflective in my life.

Last read

I read like a mofo- Wednesday's NYTimes- GeneWilder's Auto-bio-On food and cooking by Harold McGee, Larousse Gastronomique. The mission of art by Alex Grey and I love Lasse hoile's work. Lots of cookbooks and mags/biographies.

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 5'11" (180cms) 5'0" (152cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type: About average Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes: Blue No preference
Hair: Light brown No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way, Cigar aficionado
Drink: Social Drinker No preference
Occupation: Executive / Management No preference
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Never Married No preference
Have kids: No No preference
Wants kids: Someday No preference
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian No preference
I was raised Irish Catholic, but now I am an American. Although my background is French, Swiss, and Irish, I CAN dance and pretty well so I am told.
Faith: Christian / Catholic No preference
Think for yourself..... question authority. When I was in cooking school, I would chill at a bench by P. Teillard De Chardin and study sauces. He was a priest who was silenced by the Vatican. We can't have that, can we?
Languages: English, French, Spanish, Other No preference
Education: Bachelors degree No preference
Marquette, Milwaukee 1995, Worked in several restaurants to learn about food. CIA (NY) '01. Cooking keeps me young and happy-I feed people! "Experience: that most brutal of teachers. But you learn, my God do you learn"-CS Lewis.(Shadowlands)
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