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37 year old man | Chicago, IL, USA | Seeking women 29-38 within 10 miles


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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
5'10" (177cms)
Spiritual but not religious
Like most of you, I've been to every country...

In his own words

Like most of you, I've been to every country on earth, and after finding Antarctica boring (I don't speak penguin, there are no restaurants, and while a fairly adventurous eater I just didn't have the heart to try the baby seal), I opted for interstellar exploration last summer. Sadly, I didn't account for the permanent storm on Jupiter ruining my photos. Low light; lots of dust. No pics. But really. I'm glad we are all well traveled and interested in experiencing the world. That kind of curiosity is key; but free time is precious and I only leave the country every other year or so. I tend to dedicate a good portion of my vacation time to family visits in Boston and Milwaukee. That kind of dedication is also key. I believe we create a large part of our immediate world--what you put into it is reflected back at you in the quality of your relationships and achievements. It's an energy thing. It sounds cliche to say you get what you give, but there it is. So give good. I am playfully irreverent, creative, fun, deeply loyal to those who earn it, and pretty quick on the verbal draw. Sarcasm, banter, and other blah-de-blah are welcome here. I have three brothers, so I've had lots of practice. I march to the beat of my own drummer, and you do, too. Well played. I'd like to convey something about my personality without blowing a cloud of smoke up your jeggings about unicorns, rainbows, or other mythically magical moments because there is a big difference between real chemistry and words on screen. We have to meet to see if that spark happens. Example; my MBTI type is INTP, so "scientifically" speaking, I'm rare. Ha. Google it anyway, just for [censored] and giggles. Understanding each other's mindset matters. That is one window into mine. By now, I've realized I'm not the smartest, fastest or strongest, but I have a habit of using my quiet intensity to steadily rise to challenges. Raw talent is cool, but perseverance gets s*it done. My superpower it would be tenacity. What's yours? Tenacious Man may be unsexy on a t-shirt (though kinda perfect because he just stays there, hah) or in a marvel movie, but still cooler than Aquaman! On that note, I don't swim well, but I can tread water like a mo-fo, have a serviceable back float, and a killer dog paddle. Ideally, we'd in time discover a partnership where we encourage each other's creativity, intellectual adventures, careers, and playful sides. We admire each other's accomplishments and we accept each other's flaws (within reason-no serial killers please). We give each other room to grow as individuals as much as we grow together. We leave our comfort zones and try new things. That said I'm not in a rush; I'm as open to expanding my social circle as I am to romantic possibilities. If the connection is right, I will gladly work for something more--that 'us' that is out there in the ether. But friends are cool, too. Other fun facts more factual than space travel: I love texture and working with my hands when time permits. I used to build furniture and I still make the occasional piece of jewelry. My hands were meant to feel, get a little dirty, and hold that which I hold dear. I connect to people and my world through touch. Sometimes a squeeze on the knee communicates better than words. Yes I realize the irony of saying that towards the end of my novel, thank you. If you ask nicely, you may discover I give a mean shoulder rub, too. Who are you? Creative, kind, open-minded, see humor in life from the stupid details to the big picture stuff. You're socially and culturally active, curious, athletic, and smart as a mo-fo. Smart = hot, but you already know that, don't you smartypants. City girls only please, I live and work in the Loop; I don't have a car. Happy to make the first move, but if your profile doesn't say anything, you don't give me much to respond to, so...feel free to reach out and share something.

His interests

Alumni connections , Coffee and conversation , Dining out , Hobbies and crafts , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Travel/Sightseeing , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Other types of exercise, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga

I exercise 3-4 times per week.




I like Fish

I like sushi... is this the wrong box for this?

Political views


Favorite hot spots

Anywhere with free wi-fi, I like trying new restaurants, art museums, season tix to CSO and Joffrey, my bike Nova, places I've traveled in Europe, Boston (lived there), Milwaukee (from there), Green Mill, Slurping Turtle, Watershed, etc..


Washington University in St. Louis, St. Louis, MO

Favorite things

Coffee. Black Keys, Radiohead, Tom Waits, Decemberists, A. Bird, Black Crowes, J. Buckley, E. Costello, Hendrix, RHCP, Amelie, D. Byrne, Chopin, Live Blues. Dexter, Arrested Development, The Wire, Life. Tommy Boy, So I Married an Ax Murderer 30 Rock

For fun

Urban hike, photography, drawing, riding trains, movies-cerebral documentaries through kung fu, new restaurants, hot yoga, craft beer and good conversation, bar trivia, Paper Machete, live blues. Just discovered that rock climbing is fun, too.

Last read

One Simple Idea, Energy Leadership, The Immoralist, Chicago Zoning Code. Favorite novel-One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest. Shel Silverstein. Just started Meditations from the Mat...

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 5'10" (177cms) 5'2" (157cms) to 5'9" (175cms)
Body type: Slender Slender, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Blue No preference
Hair: Dark blonde No preference
Smoke: Occasionally No Way, Occasionally
Drink: Moderately Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation: Architecture / Interior design No preference
architect/urban planner/designer. I also enjoy research and writing, and freelance as a copy editor from time to time. I've helped edit a couple books and I have a knack for catching typos. I know..super sexy.
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Divorced
Have kids: No No
Wants kids: Someday Definitely, Someday, Not sure
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian No preference
Faith: Spiritual but not religious No preference
Raised Catholic but tend to agree that "the string too tight breaks, and the string too slack has no sound; either way the music dies.There is a middle way."
Languages: English English
Education: Graduate degree Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
Undergrad in sculpture, grad in architecture and urban planning
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