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37 year old man | Chicago, IL, USA | Seeking women 29-38 within 10 miles

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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
I'll tell you later
5'10" (177cms)
Spiritual but not religious
Like most of you, I've been to every country...

In his own words

Like most of you, I've been to every country on earth, and after becoming bored with the penguins down south (they don't speak English, there are no restaurants, and while a fairly adventurous eater I'm just not into baby seal), I opted for interstellar exploration last summer. Sorry I don't have pics, but I didn't account for the permanent storm on Jupiter messing with my camera. Sadly, the photos just didn't turn out. Low light, lots of dust. Poor planning on my part. Between travels, I've recently read 6,000 books, mostly in my downtime on the weekends while not busy saving the world as a covert agent for [REDACTED]. It's important we keep this between us, seriously, I don't want to have to "deactivate" you. Take note I'm 'having' fun not 'making' fun. I'm glad we are all well read, well traveled and interested in experiencing the world. I'd like to convey something about my personality here without posting my resume, because there is a big difference between real chemistry and words on paper. There is no substitute for meeting and seeing if that spark happens. Still applies if you're more of a PDF girl. Example; my personality type is INTP, so "scientifically" speaking, I'm rare. Ha. Nerdy? Deal with it. Google it anyway, just for [censored] and giggles. Experience tells me understanding each other's mindset matters. That is one window into mine. I believe that we create a large part of our immediate world--what you put into it is reflected back at you in the quality of your relationships and achievements. It's an energy thing. It sounds cliche to say you get what you give, but there it is. I am playfully irreverent, creative, fun, deeply loyal to those who earn it, and I have a pretty quick wit. Sarcasm, banter, and all that fun stuff are welcome here. I have three brothers, so I've had lots of practice. I march to the beat of my own drummer in some ways, and you probably do, too. I dig that. By now, I've lived some, taken some risks, and overcome some challenges. You have, too. Ideally, we will in time find a partnership where we encourage each other's creativity, intellectual adventures, careers, and playful sides. We admire each other's accomplishments and we accept each other's flaws (within reason-no serial killers please). We give each other room to grow as individuals as much as we grow together. A necessary component of that is leaving our comfort zones and trying new things from time to time. That said I'm not in a rush, and I'm as open to meeting like-minded people as I am to the possibilities of something more. I love texture and working with my hands when I have the time. I used to build furniture and I still make the occasional piece of jewelry. These hands were meant to feel, get a little dirty, and hold that which I hold dear. I connect to people and my world through touch. Sometimes a squeeze on the knee communicates the message better than words. Yes I realize the irony of saying that towards the end of my novel, thank you. If you ask nicely, you may discover I give a mean shoulder rub, too. What am I looking for? Or rather who? Life has taught me that predefining that doesn't necessarily work. I'm a fan of creativity, kindness, open-mindedness, and those who see humor in life from the stupid details to the big picture stuff. I tried to bring a little something different to the table. If you do, too, don't be shy, drop me a note. (City girls only please.)

His interests

Alumni connections , Coffee and conversation , Dining out , Hobbies and crafts , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Travel/Sightseeing , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Other types of exercise, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga

I exercise 3-4 times per week.




I like Fish

I like sushi... is this the wrong box for this?

Political views


Favorite hot spots

State-side: Milwaukee, Chicago, Boston Abroad: Paris, Barcelona, Rome, Amsterdam, Bucharest, Local: Schuba's, Kingston Mines, Craft Breweries, CSO, Art Institute 'n more..


Washington University in St. Louis, St. Louis, MO

Favorite things

Coffee. Black Keys, Radiohead, Tom Waits, Decemberists, A. Bird, Black Crowes, J. Buckley, E. Costello, Hendrix, RHCP, Amelie, D. Byrne, Chopin, Live Blues. Dexter, Arrested Development, The Wire, Life. Tommy Boy, So I Married an Ax Murderer 30 Rock

For fun

A good walk through any city, photography, drawing,riding trains, movies, documentaries, new restaurants, hot yoga, craft beer and good conversation, bar trivia, Paper Machete, live blues. Not a big sports fan, but I'll watch if beer's involved.

Last read

One Simple Idea, Energy Leadership, The Immoralist, Chicago Zoning Code. Favorite novel--One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest. Favorite play--Hamlet. Shel Silverstein is the beez kneez.

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 5'10" (177cms) 5'0" (152cms) to 5'10" (177cms)
Body type: I'll tell you later Slender, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Blue No preference
Hair: Dark blonde No preference
Smoke: Occasionally No Way, Occasionally
Drink: Moderately Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation: Architecture / Interior design No preference
I work as an architect/urban planner. I also enjoy research and writing, and freelance as a copy editor from time to time. I've helped to edit a couple books as well. I have a knack for catching typos. I know..super sexy.
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Divorced
Have kids: No No
Wants kids: Someday Definitely, Someday, Not sure
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian No preference
Faith: Spiritual but not religious No preference
I'm not anti-religion but strict dogma annoys me if it instructs us not to question. Atheism can bum me out because the notion that we evolved from algae over some billions of years seems as freaking miraculous and absurd as a bearded man in the sky.
Languages: English English
Education: Graduate degree Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
Undergrad in sculpture, grad in architecture and urban planning
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