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JeVoudrais__

37 year old man | Chicago, IL, USA | Seeking women 29-38 within 10 miles

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His details

Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Wants kids:
Someday
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Slender
Height:
5'10" (177cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
Occasionally
Drink:
Moderately
I believe that we create a large part of our...

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I believe that we create a large part of our immediate world--what you put into it is reflected back at you in the quality of your relationships and achievements. It's an energy thing. It sounds cliche to say you get what you give, but there it is. So give good. I am playfully irreverent, creative, fun, deeply loyal to those who earn it, and pretty quick on the verbal draw. Sarcasm, banter, and all that fun stuff are welcome here. I have three brothers, so I've had lots of practice. I march to the beat of my own drummer in some ways, and you do, too. Well played. Like most of you, I've been to every country on earth, and after becoming bored with the penguins in Antarctica (they don't speak English, there are no restaurants, and while a fairly adventurous eater I just don't have the heart to try the baby seal), I opted for interstellar exploration last summer. Unfortunately I didn't account for the permanent storm on Jupiter ruining my photos. They just didn't turn out. Low light; lots of dust. Poor planning on my part. Buuut really... I'm glad we are all well traveled and interested in experiencing the world. That kind of curiosity is key; but free time is precious and I only leave the country every other year or so. I tend to dedicate a good portion of my vacation time to family visits in Boston and Milwaukee. That kind of dedication is also key. I'd like to convey something about my personality without blowing too much smoke up your backside about unicorns, rainbows or other magical moments because there is a big difference between real chemistry and words on paper. Neither of us is perfect and that makes us interesting. There is no substitute for meeting and seeing if that spark happens. Example; my personality type is INTP, so "scientifically" speaking, I'm rare. Ha. Google it anyway, just for [censored] and giggles. Understanding each other's mindset matters. That is one window into mine. By now, I've lived some, taken some risks, and overcome challenges. You have, too. Ideally, we will in time discover a partnership where we encourage each other's creativity, intellectual adventures, careers, and playful sides. We admire each other's accomplishments and we accept each other's flaws (within reason-no serial killers please). We give each other room to grow as individuals as much as we grow together. We leave our comfort zones and try new things from time to time. That said I'm not in a rush, and I'm as open to meeting like-minded people as I am to the possibilities of something more. If the connection is right, I will gladly work for something more--that 'us' that is out there in the ether. Other fun facts that are more factual than space travel:: I love texture and working with my hands when I have the time. I used to build furniture and I still make the occasional piece of jewelry. My hands were meant to feel, get a little dirty, and hold that which I hold dear. I connect to people and my world through touch. Sometimes a squeeze on the knee communicates the message better than words. Yes I realize the irony of saying that towards the end of my novel, thank you. If you ask nicely, you may discover I give a mean shoulder rub, too. Who am I looking for? I've found that predefining that doesn't necessarily work. I'm a fan of creativity, kindness, open-mindedness, and those who see humor in life from the stupid details to the big picture stuff. You're socially and culturally active, curious, athletic, and smart as a mo-fo. Smart is hot. So bring it on smarty-pants. City girls only please, I live and work in the Loop, and I'm reducing my carbon footprint by not owning a car. Last, I'm happy to "make the first move" but if your profile doesn't say anything, you don't give me much to respond to, so I probably won't. Attraction matters, but as GI Joe used to (almost) say, your lovely pics are only half the battle. Feel free to reach out and share something for conversation.

His interests

Alumni connections , Coffee and conversation , Dining out , Hobbies and crafts , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Travel/Sightseeing , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Other types of exercise, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga


I exercise 3-4 times per week.


Sign

Scorpio

Pets

I like Fish

I like sushi... is this the wrong box for this?

Political views

Liberal

Favorite hot spots

Anywhere with free wi-fi? I like trying new restaurants, art museums, season tix to CSO and Joffrey, my bike Nova, places I've traveled in Europe, Boston (lived there), Milwaukee (from there), Green Mill, Slurping Turtle, Watershed, etc..

College

Washington University in St. Louis, St. Louis, MO

Favorite things

Coffee. Black Keys, Radiohead, Tom Waits, Decemberists, A. Bird, Black Crowes, J. Buckley, E. Costello, Hendrix, RHCP, Amelie, D. Byrne, Chopin, Live Blues. Dexter, Arrested Development, The Wire, Life. Tommy Boy, So I Married an Ax Murderer 30 Rock

For fun

Urban hike, photography, drawing, riding trains, movies-cerebral documentaries through kung fu, new restaurants, hot yoga, craft beer and good conversation, bar trivia, Paper Machete, live blues. Just discovered that rock climbing is fun, too.

Last read

One Simple Idea, Energy Leadership, The Immoralist, Chicago Zoning Code. Favorite novel-One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest. Favorite play-Hamlet. Shel Silverstein. Just started Meditations from the Mat...

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  Him What he is looking for
Appearance
Height: 5'10" (177cms) 5'2" (157cms) to 5'9" (175cms)
Body type: Slender Slender, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Blue No preference
Hair: Dark blonde No preference
Lifestyle
Smoke: Occasionally No Way, Occasionally
Drink: Moderately Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation: Architecture / Interior design No preference
architect/urban planner/designer. I also enjoy research and writing, and freelance as a copy editor from time to time. I've helped edit a couple books and I have a knack for catching typos. I know..super sexy.
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Divorced
Have kids: No No
Wants kids: Someday Definitely, Someday, Not sure
Background
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian No preference
Irish!
Faith: Spiritual but not religious No preference
Raised Catholic but tend to agree that "the string too tight breaks, and the string too slack has no sound; either way the music dies.There is a middle way." Dogma breeds dogma, compassion does the same. I prefer the latter.
Languages: English English
Education: Graduate degree Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
Undergrad in sculpture, grad in architecture and urban planning
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