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44 year old man | Chicago, IL, USA | Seeking women 34-44 within 20 miles

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Have kids:
Wants kids:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
6'0" (182cms)
Spiritual but not religious
No Way
Social Drinker

In his own words

What you really need to know... I am a life long learner... looking for a committed relationship to build-on, experiences to grow through and a person to share a lot of fun and excitement with. I can be counted on to be supportive during difficult challenges, and traverse life's little problems while laughing. I'm modestly confident, extremely loyal and value good communication. I love sarcasm and being silly with those close to me… a little mischievous (have been since grammar school). I lead a healthy lifestyle on all fronts. Integrity has been a guiding principle. I am looking for someone who appreciates the finer things in life while knowing the little things are entirely more important... and often much more enjoyable. You get sarcasm, laugh often while exploring the world, are warm-hearted, affectionate, desire and appreciate true romance. I seek a woman with the capacity for developing a healthy partnership, with awareness that the world's greatest relationship is worth all the dedication and passion it requires. I have a lot of both to give. What you might want to know... Travel and immersion into other cultures has been the most important educational experience of my life. I returned to Chicago about 2-and-a-half years ago after a long international hiatus. Six years mostly in Beijing, China where I owned my own little company, a year in Holland honing my teaching skills, and a few months in Thailand to focus purely on my health, learn bikram yoga, and breath fresh air. I was able to live in New York for a summer... a city that intrigues and stimulates me - I would never be opposed to living there or visiting often. I was also lucky to spend a summer in Damascus, where I got to play a little bit of an Indiana Jones role, researching some buried architectural treasures in the desert. Sadly, growing-up I really always wanted to be Han Solo though ;) One of the most ambitious things I have ever done is change careers... I am a former architect turned psychotherapist. While architecture afforded me many interesting and creative experiences, helping people in their lives has been the most stimulating thing I have ever been involved in. My profession makes me an excellent communicator and an empathic listener... I have a dedication to solving problems that can arise in life and know a bit about how to walk the talk. I have also been involved in teaching architectural history and exposing students to study abroad experiences in Paris and Beijing. As far as professional endeavors... I feel very fortunate to have had so many unique experiences. Some dumb stuff... I love a little inappropriate comedy and I share this sense of humor with my little brother. He is my best friend… and we can crack each other up pretty much all day long. We made a few short films together and won a few local film festivals when we were younger. I played the violin as a kid, but eventually switched to an electric guitar with saved-up allowance money. I truly wanted to be a rock star when I grew up. Truth be told, I am really only 5'-11-3/4" without shoes when officially measured and usually about 6’-1” with shoes on. My divorce ended very amicably quite some time ago... and I learned a lot about being a better partner. I have one silly God given talent that I would never trade for another ;) I REALLY don't like using emotion icons, but feel the need to convey when I am trying to be a total smart to people who don’t know me just yet. Last thought... "It does not matter so much what happens inside an individual as it matter what happens between them" - Harry Stack Sullivan

His interests

Coffee and conversation , Dining out , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Playing cards , Political interests , Shopping/Antiques , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga

I exercise 3-4 times per week.




I like Dogs

Political views


Favorite hot spots

Paris is my favorite city. Fortunate to have lived, worked, and taught there. It's a place I always return to. Thailand for spa escapes. I truly love airports, airplanes and hotels. I can even make the most of a 5-hour lay-over in Fargo

Favorite things

Protein Bar Vegan Burritos, Sushi, Spicy food. Flirty texts. High-thread-count sheets. My amazing-blender-licking banana-mango smoothies. My mother's homemade pizza.

For fun

Walk cities looking for the world's best coffee. Finding the absolutely best travel deals and the best places to be in each city. Stimulating dinner conversations. Hanging out with my Brother. Not a big sports guy, outside of a few Sunday NFL games

Last read

I am currently reading fascinating psychology books on relational theories... I get a lot out of learning new communication skills, ideas on self-improvement, diversity and culture appreciating reading.

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 6'0" (182cms) 4'8" (142cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Hazel Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair: Salt and pepper Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Silver, Dark blonde, Grey, Platinum, Bald
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Never, Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation: Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness Administrative / Secretarial, Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Labor / Construction, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Retail / Food services, Retired, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Student, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Law enforcement / Security / Military, Fashion / Model / Beauty, Architecture / Interior design
Architect turned psychotherapist... I feel very fortunate to have done both in my life
Income: I'll tell you later $25,001 to $35,000, $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship: Divorced Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: No No
Wants kids: Definitely Definitely, Someday, Not sure
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
An American mutt... looks and silver hair come mostly from the Greek side though. Extremely interested in understanding other cultures and being exposed to diversity.
Faith: Spiritual but not religious Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Hindu, Jewish, Muslim / Islam, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other
Raised Catholic and fascinated by religions, but I have come to the belief that kindness to others and providing assistance to people in need is the right spirituality for me.
Languages: English English
Education: Graduate degree High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
Master Degrees in Psychological Counseling and Architectural History. Bachelor Degree in Architecture. Studied overseas... Lots of travel has expanded my thinking and enriched my education. Love learning about culture and diversity.
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