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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
6'1" (185cms)
No Way
Social Drinker
This feels kind of like playing the lottery,...

In his own words

This feels kind of like playing the lottery, but I think doing something is generally better than doing nothing. And don't they always say, someone has to win? Relationships are the ultimate growth experiences, even if you're not ready to grow in a particular area. For me, I have learned the following. I am an excellent boyfriend. I will carve out a huge amount of space in my life and in my heart for someone I like. I really want to share my life experiences with someone. Despite the internal bravado about independence and space, whether I'm shopping for dinner at whole foods or planning a trip to Asia, I want someone by my side. Vulnerability is a risk. This is key to any relationship but it's hard to do, especially if you have been hurt. If I accept the risk, the experience can be overwhelmingly good, if the other person can understand and respect the responsibility gently. Communication is critical. I know, that's a no brainer, but that doesn't mean it's automatic or easy. Lastly, I deserve someone who can care about me as much as I can care about them. That's my nutshell. I have a lot to offer, and expect a lot in return. And it's well worth it.

His interests

Book club , Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Movies/Videos , Music and concerts , Performing arts , Playing cards , Political interests , Religion/Spiritual , Travel/Sightseeing , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga

I exercise 5 or more times per week.




I like Cats, Dogs, Horses, Other

I generally like animals more easily than humans. If people die in a movie, meh. If an animal is at risk, I have anxiety.

Political views

Very Liberal

Favorite hot spots

Plum Bistro, Woodinville, Indian buffets, My Kitchen, Purr before 9pm, The Esoterics' Concerts, Roy Street Coffee,


University of South Florida, Tampa, FL

Favorite things

Music always & almost any Cooking - especially for friends X-Files, Anthony Bourdain, Parks & Rec, Arrow, Scandal Meshell Ndegeocello The Poisonwood Bible LOTR, Harry Potter, Star Trek, Star Wars Vampires

For fun

I like to cook through cookbooks - sing with the Esos - game nights I like drinks in a place that doesn't require yelling to have a conversation

Last read

Radical Honesty by Brad Blanton, The Price of Inequality by Joseph Stiglitz, Peace from Broken Pieces by Iyanla Vanzant, Inferno by Dan Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown, The China Study

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 6'1" (185cms) 5'5" (165cms) to 6'5" (195cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Brown Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair: Salt and pepper Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Silver, Dark blonde, Grey, Platinum
Smoke: No Way No Way, Occasionally
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation: Executive / Management No preference
My work is currently focused on business process and technology solutions for international merchandising
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids: No No
Wants kids: No Not sure, No
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian
Faith: Other Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Hindu, Jewish, Muslim / Islam, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other
Languages: English, Hindi, Spanish English
Education: Some college High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
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