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41 year old man | Los Angeles, CA, USA | Seeking women 28-39 within 50 miles


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Have kids:
Yes, and they sometimes live at home (1)
Wants kids:
Latino / Hispanic, White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
5'11" (180cms)
Spiritual but not religious
No Way
Social Drinker
Hi. Thanks for stopping by!!! Some of the...

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Hi. Thanks for stopping by!!! Some of the basics about me are that I have a successful career, a great group of friends and am the father of the raddest 7 year old girl in the world. Blah, Blah, Blah. That tells you nothing - might as well say I love to eat nice dinners, travel and am looking for a partner in crime. Maybe this might tell you give you a better picture. Unlike everyone on this site, who's parent's are happily married, about 5 years ago, both of mine passed away from cancer and during that time I became separated (then ultimately divorced). From that parade of horribles, I stopped caring what people think about me, started owning all my personality traits and flaws and got very focused on making sure I was getting the most out of each year and stopped just promising myself to make each year better than the last, but setting out goals to make sure it happened. Therapy helped. Remember that scene from Shawshank Redemption where Tim Robins climbs out of the sewer pipe and raises his arms in the air toward the sky. Ever since then, life has been a lot better. Here is what I am doing for the rest of the year: 1) Go to work as a lawyer on several reality television shows including one that results in a marriage proposal at the end of each season (but maybe not this season, you have to watch), which I enjoy. Don’t judge. 2) Find fun things to do with my daughter, who I have 50% of the time. 3) Working out a ton. 4) Go to the KROQ Weenie Roast 5) Bottle Rock Music Festival in Napa 6) Watch the entire Breaking Bad series from episode 1 7) Play lots of Guitar 8) Guys trip to Chicago to see the Cubs play the Cards 9) Bruins Wood Family Camp in Lake Arrowhead 10) Climb Mt. Whitney in the Fall 11) Coach my daughter’s soccer team 12) Watch the Angels in the World Series and the Bruins in the Rose Bowl 13) Go Snowboarding in Whistler Not bad, right? Yet, there are two undeniable truths about the above beyond that I like lists and setting goals. First, while I would love to convince myself that all the awesome things above will make me happy, the simple truth is that it wont. You know this. What's missing and what would be more fulfilling is to find a great girl with whom to share all of this and my life. Second, in order to have that, it is not enough to just be a nice guy with a good job that does a bunch of fun stuff. For a long time, i thought it was. A relationship takes affirmative actual work to be successful. You have to be humble and selfless enough to ask the question "how can I be a better friend, boyfriend, husband?" If you can do that, anything is possible. Without it, it is only a matter of time before you are back on match. A few words about You: You do not live in China, Russia or anywhere outside of California (although the look on the faces of my friends and family after I explain I am marrying someone from the would be priceless). You have more than one photo (too risky otherwise). You are fluent in sarcasm (we will wont be able to appreciate each other's awesomeness if you are not). You are slender or are generally in good shape (the only people offended by this are those who are not). Your last couple of boyfriends were not jerks (I am not going to be the gateway nice guy in your relationship journey). And the smell of scotch does not gross you out. . A few final words. While my pics are recent, I am a couple of years older than my age listed on here. Promise, not catfishing. But if I don't adjust my age on here I get a little inundated with messages from women outside my age range. Don't be surprised if I actually call you on the phone instead of texting.

His interests

Coffee and conversation , Dining out , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Nightclubs/Dancing , Political interests , Travel/Sightseeing , Watching sports

Sports & exercise

Basketball, Running, Soccer

I exercise 3-4 times per week.




I like Dogs, Fish

If I get a cat for my daughter, does that count as an exception to the well established rule that single guys with cats are weird?

Political views

Middle of the Road

Favorite hot spots

Beach -- Reading a book Hermosa Beach Scuba Diving -- Maui, Caymans or Belize Snowboarding/Skiing -- Park City, Zermat Restaurants -- Church and State, Little Door, Soho House, Mastro's, Sugarfish, Providence, but also hole in the wall places


University of California, Los Angeles, Los Angeles, CA

Favorite things

Music - Lately, I have been digging Johnny Cash and Arctic Monkeys TV - Game of Thrones, Veep, Walking Dead, The League, Modern Family, Downton Abbey Film - Snatch, Love Actually, Pulp Fiction, RadioThis American Life and WTF

For fun

Besides the obvious answers of traveling and eating at good restaurants, i would say going to live music, sporting events obviously and going to anything arts related, e.g. film fest, LACMA, flea market, dtla art walk, etc., practicing the guitar.

Last read

I read the paper every day. I love E. Hemmigway, Vonnegut, A. Dumas and James Ellroy

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 5'11" (180cms) 5'0" (152cms) to 5'8" (172cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned Slender, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Brown Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair: Dark brown Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde
Smoke: No Way No preference
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation: Legal No preference
I am an attorney in the television division of a well known major film studio and one of the few attorneys that actually enjoys his job (although not a 100% of the time).
Income: $150,001+ $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship: Divorced No preference
Have kids: Yes, and they sometimes live at home (1) Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home
Wants kids: Definitely Definitely
Ethnicity: Latino / Hispanic, White / Caucasian Asian, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
I am Colombian and Irish, which means when I am genetically predisposed to nearly every vice known to man.
Faith: Spiritual but not religious No preference
At the core of just about any faith is the principle of Karma or treating others the way you want to be treated --which is the way I try to live my life. But lately, I am warming up to the idea of meditation and a little more spirituality in my life
Languages: English, Spanish English
Education: Graduate degree Some college
I went to UCLA undergrad and USC law school.
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