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49 year old man | Cottonwood Heights, UT, USA | Seeking women 37-54 within 50 miles

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Have kids:
Wants kids:
Not sure
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
5'11" (180cms)
No Way
Social Drinker
There's a phrase that goes "The moment you...

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There's a phrase that goes "The moment you stop learning, you start dying". Although I am a strong believer in that phrase I do have to admit that there are times that I do contemplate getting put into permanent detention. Humor also figures heavily into my life - you'll have to judge for yourself whether my sense of humor is "good" or not, but it is definitely there. Laughing comes as naturally as breathing to me, and I enjoy laughing at myself just as much as anything else. What am I looking for? That's an excellent question. And about the best answer I can give you is that I am looking for someone that I connect with. Someone that when I look into her eyes I see that special sparkle that is reserved just for me. And that she sees the same thing when she looks into mine. I know that similarities in lifestyle are important. I certainly don't expect to find someone that will match me step for step in my quest to see how many new and interesting ways I can "carpe my diem", but if there's no shared interests and activities it's just that much harder to stay connected. Beyond that, I'm just going to have to leave it up to fate. I'll know if there is a connection as soon as we have a chance to look each other in the eye and strike up our first conversation. If my previous experience with online dating has taught me anything, it's taught me that you have no idea who you are interacting with until you are face to face. Now that I've gotten that out of the way, how about I tell you a little more about myself? I've been accused quite a lot recently of being an adrenaline junkie, and I don't think I can deny it any more. I love to be doing anything that makes me feel alive and in the moment, even if that means that I have to be really close to not being alive to get there. Don't get the wrong impression here - it's not all about the rush. I love diving into a good intellectual discussion as much as I love tossing myself out of an airplane. I treasure my quiet moments - hanging out on the couch watching a movie, or sleeping late on a Sunday are just as important to me as clinging to the side of a mountain somewhere. I'll warn you right now - I do have a brain, and even use it from time to time. Unlike some of my peers, I am not the least bit intimidated by intelligence or confidence in a dating partner. Quite the opposite, as a matter of fact - I find intelligence and self confidence quite attractive in a woman. I think it helps that I know who I am and don't feel a need to compete with anyone unless we both think it'll be fun.

His interests

Camping , Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Gardening/Landscaping , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Nightclubs/Dancing , Performing arts , Playing cards , Playing sports , Shopping/Antiques , Travel/Sightseeing , Video games , Volunteering , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Dancing, Football, Golf, Hockey, Inline skating, Martial arts, Other types of exercise, Skiing, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, VolleyBall, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines

I exercise 5 or more times per week.




I have Dogs

I like Birds, Cats, Exotic Pets, Fish

Although I am a fan of all animals, my heart is reserved for German Shepards. I think small dogs and cats know this so I think they shower me with affection just to annoy me

Political views


Favorite hot spots

Anywhere away from strip malls and chain restaurants. Love Australia, need to go fall in love with New Zealand soon


University of Cincinnati, Cincinnati, OH

Favorite things

Anything off of the beaten path. I love being anywhere where the elements run naked. Antique shops, non-chain bookstores, eclectic restaurants

For fun

Lifelong affair with martial arts - both teaching and competing. I also do a lot of skydiving in the summer and skiing in the winter. It's not all adrenaline rushes though. I also cut and polish opals for fun

Last read

Blink and Outliers are the two most recent books I've read. Oh, and I should probably admit that I've paged through the 50 Shades books once or twice

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 5'11" (180cms) 4'10" (147cms) to 7'0" (213cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes: Blue No preference
Hair: Salt and pepper No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation: Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering No preference
I've been in the computer software business all my life. I also do IT related business mentoring and lecturing from time to time.
Income: $150,001+ No preference
Relationship: Divorced No preference
Have kids: No Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Wants kids: Not sure No preference
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian Asian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, White / Caucasian
Faith: Agnostic No preference
Was raised in the Catholic faith, not very active at this point in my life
Languages: English No preference
Education: Bachelors degree Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
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