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56 year old man | Minneapolis, MN, USA | Seeking women 38-56 within 100 miles of Northfield, MN


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Have kids:
Yes, and they sometimes live at home (2)
Wants kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
5'8" (172cms)
Christian / Protestant
No Way
I did not get the memo instructing me that...

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I did not get the memo instructing me that shirtless images were mandatory within a man’s profile. I’m more of a suit coat and blue jeans kind of guy. I was absent when it was decided it the norm to pose with dead carcasses harvested from the forest or gasping fish yanked from our 10,000 lakes. I’m more apt to hike or go swimming. Fine dining is more my thing. I do not own a macho truck, crotch rocket or Harley. I don’t feel the need to wear my testosterone upon my sleeve. And I do wear sleeves. Shirtless photos are rather gross. I'm not one of the horde who is here to serial date or fall prey to the "grass is always greener" trap that seems to suck people into Match as a lifestyle and not an expedient place to (gasp) meet. The former results in Dating ADHD where people flit from one to another without truly getting to know another as a person. I am ready for love with someone who will love me back--mirroring my energy, passion, commitment and trust that are required, desired and needed for a relationship to blossom and succeed. That's where butterflies hatch, and life feels so sexy. Being a male is a matter of birth, being a man is a matter of age, but being a gentleman is a matter of choice. Who am I? A marvelously complex and wonderfully simple gentleman. Complex in that I am sophisticated, have a quirky humor and am very quick with my mind. Simple in that I take the “gentle” part of “gentleman” very much to heart. I know who I am. I like who I am. I tend to live my life with an outward focus towards others. Thoughtful, romantic (to a fault)…I believe you’d find me to be quite a surprise find. The surprises do not stop there. Wind me up, turn me on, and a devilish rogue comes out of hiding—and when he does, you’re going to find it exciting. That rogue…he’s patient and waits for an invitation and very clear signs. We presumably are adults here, so can we talk for a moment like one? My ideal, intimate relationship requires intellectual, emotional and sexual compatibility. I love women who are secure, empowered and celebrate the totality of who they are with a playful zest for life. I adore women who embrace their inner Madonna but also possess a counter-personaltiy that is a lustful, sexual Goddess. The Madonna loves a man who provides security and warmth. Attention and unflinching devotion. One who listens. Hold hands and steals kisses. One who empathizes. He becomes her rock, her soulmate, her anchor. The Goddess? When she emerges to meet the rogue, she is flirty, ultra feminine and very playful and uninhibited. She can be a tigress in need of being sensually tamed. Open with emotion, desires and needs she is an open communicator and can be deliciously provocative. Her sexuality is an open book and she desires a man who will devour each and every page. Is this an impossible relationship? I think not. However these kind of unions do not simply fall from the sky. One must be patient. Seek. It requires oodles of work. But is it worth it? Hell, yes. But for it to begin, it needs to start. Let’s begin. Drop in and say “Hello.” I don’t bite, but I have been known to nibble. I've gotten some blowback for being this direct, other's applaud. Should we meet, it is just like any other conventional date and without expectations. It's not like we're going to do the horizontal mambo or go out and select curtains together. We're just acknowledging, "Hell yes. That's important for us both." If this/I intrigues you, don't be shy. Leave an interest trail. Like a photo. Hit "favorite." Leave a note...if you dare. P.S. My profile states Minneapolis. That is where I work. My home is actually a small ways outside the immediate Twin Cities down near Northfield where I live on a pastural hobby farm. I’ve been doing the commute for 13 years and date almost exlusively in The Cities.g

His interests

Camping , Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Gardening/Landscaping , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Shopping/Antiques , Watching sports

Sports & exercise

Golf, Skiing, Swimming, Walking / Hiking

I exercise 1-2 times per week.




I have Cats, Dogs

Political views

Middle of the Road

Favorite hot spots

Quaint small towns. Off-the-beaten path restaurants and cafes. Big Woods State Park.


Northwestern University, Evanston, IL

Favorite things

My daughters. Hands down. End of conversation. Instant winner.

For fun

It's more about who you are sharing adventures with than what the adventure is.From theatre, to movies, to restaurants, sporting events, state park exploration and's all good as long as you are grooving with the company you share it with.

Last read

Favorite author is Richard Russon--who understands and intelligently skewers the complixity of small town living.

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 5'8" (172cms) 4'8" (142cms) to 5'7" (170cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Brown No preference
Hair: Dark brown No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way, Occasionally, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink: Never Never, Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation: Executive / Management No preference
Senior level executive in advertising with a specialization in consumer interaction with the media they are exposed to daily. My occupation demands I be both analytical and creative and is a nice mix of right brain/left brain demands on my thinking.
Income: $100,001 to $150,000 $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship: Divorced Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids: Yes, and they sometimes live at home (2) Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Wants kids: No, but it's OK if my partner has kids No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
My household is mixed race. I'm of German/English heritage and my two daughters are adopted from China.
Faith: Christian / Protestant Agnostic, Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other
Raised mainstream Protestant (Presbyterian and/or Methodist). Aside from hanging low during The Lord's Prayer to make certain you don't mess up being a "sinner" or "transgressor" I don't see much difference. I am primarily spiritual.
Languages: English English
Education: Bachelors degree Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
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